Benedictine Living: Practicing Prayer, Work, and Community
Retreat Highlights
- Community.
- Meditation.
- Nature.
- Hiking.
About this Retreat
Your Guides
Details of this retreat
Are you curious about how the Rule of St. Benedict, an ancient rule for monastic life, could be lived out in your own daily rhythm?
This retreat draws together two streams at the heart of the Forest of Peace: our Benedictine heritage and the deep longing for community, shared rhythm, and contemplative living expressed by so many who come here today.
The retreat begins with a weekend experience and continues into an optional week-long immersion for those who wish to stay on and explore more deeply the wisdom and practice of the Rule of St. Benedict. Participants will share in a simple daily rhythm of prayer, silence, meals, work, study, and rest shaped by Benedictine values and adapted for contemporary life.
This is not an exercise in reenactment or living history, but an invitation into a living tradition: a modern expression of the contemplative and communal life practiced in Benedictine communities around the world.
Because Benedictine spirituality is rooted in shared life, participants will be invited to commit themselves fully to the common rhythm of the retreat. The Rule of St. Benedict teaches humility, stability, and mutual obedience — learning to listen deeply to God and to one another. Through participating together in the daily practices of prayer, work, silence, and community, the retreat becomes not merely something attended, but a way of life temporarily shared.
To prepare for our time together, you'll be sent some readings ahead of time, which we'll discuss while we're together.
Weekend schedule:
Friday
Arrive anytime after 10 a.m.
Noon Meditation
Lunch at 12:30
1:30 Rest hour
2:30 Sext, followed by manual labor
3:45 None
4:30 Evening Meditation
5:30 Dinner
6:30 Vespers
7:00 Session 1: Living the Benedictine Way
8:30 Compline, return to cabins for Great Silence
Saturday
(Great Silence is kept until 9 a.m.)
7:00 a.m. Lauds/morning meditation
8:00 a.m. Breakfast in silence
9:00 a.m. Great Silence Ends, Session 2: Living a Life of Lectio
10:30 a.m. Terce
11:00 a.m. Reading
Noon Meditation
12:30 p.m. Lunch (Reading from the Rule, then conversation)
1:30 p.m. Rest Hour
2:30 p.m. Sext, followed by manual labor
3:45 None
4:30 Evening Meditation
5:30 Dinner
6:30 Vespers
7:00 Session 3: Living the tension between “Ora et Labora”
8:30 Compline, return to cabins for Great Silence
Sunday
(Great Silence is kept until 9 a.m.)
7:00 a.m. Lauds/morning meditation
8:00 a.m. Breakfast in silence
9:00 a.m. Great Silence Ends, Session 4: Living Stability in a World of Instability
10:30 a.m. Terce and goodbye to the weekenders
11:00 a.m. Free Time
12:30 p.m. Lunch (Reading from the Rule, then conversation)
1:30 p.m. Rest Hour
2:30 p.m. Sext
3:45 None
4:30 Evening Meditation
5:30 Dinner
6:30 Vespers
7:30 Social Time
8:30 Compline, return to cabins for Great Silence
Monday-Thursday
(Great Silence is kept until 9 a.m.)
7:00 a.m.Lauds/morning meditation
8:00 a.m. Breakfast in silence
9:00 a.m. Great Silence Ends, Learning Session
Monday: The Tools for Good Works
Tuesday: Humility
Wednesday: Obedience
Thursday: Just a Beginning
10:30 a.m. Terce
11:00 a.m. Reading
Noon Meditation
12:30 p.m. Lunch (Reading from the Rule, then conversation)
1:30 p.m. Rest Hour
2:30 p.m. Sext, followed by manual labor
3:45 None
4:30 Evening Meditation
5:30 Dinner
6:30 Vespers
7:30 Social Time
8:30 Compline, return to cabins for Great Silence
Friday
(Great Silence is kept until 9 a.m.)
7:00 a.m. Vigils/morning meditation
8:00 a.m. Breakfast in silence
9:00 a.m. Great Silence Ends, Learning Session: Next Steps
10:30 a.m. Terce and goodbyes
Schedule
Hiking.
Nature.
Labyrinth.
Zen Garden.
Getting Here
Directions
Take Hwy 64 West past the town of Sand Springs; exit at 177 West Avenue.
Turn RIGHT on 177 West Avenue and drive about 1 mile to Anderson Road.
Turn LEFT on Anderson Road.
Continue about ½ mile to the entrance to the Shell Creek West housing division.
Turn RIGHT into Shell Creek West housing division.
Turn RIGHT at Lakeview Drive.
Continue until you see Monastery Road.
Turn RIGHT onto Monastery Road until you come to the parking lot for Osage.
Accommodation
Our guest cabins provide a cozy and simple spot in the Forest to focus on what truly matters during your retreat. Many guests comment that they experience deep peace upon arriving at the Forest. Staying in a guest cabin allows you to experience the serene rest that comes with sleeping in the woods. STANDARD CABINS Our standard cabins feature a full bathroom, heating and air conditioning, and WiFi access. They include: Twin beds Bathroom with shower Bed linens, pillows, blankets, and towels Hair dryer Desk Dresser Comfortable chair Alarm clock Hand soap Makeup remover wipes Tissues Insect repellent Umbrella Flashlights GUEST HERMITAGE Our guest hermitage cabin is located in a private spot with big picture windows for looking out at the forest. This cabin features two rooms and a larger bathroom. There is a microwave, small refrigerator, plates, mugs, and eating utensils. A private deck is perfect for experiencing the wonder of the forest in solitude. This cabin includes: Twin beds Bathroom with shower Bed linens, pillows, blankets, and towels Hair dryer Desk Dresser Comfortable chair Alarm clock Hand soap Makeup remover wipes Tissues Insect repellent Umbrella Flashlights
Venue & Amenities
Our retreat center also has a trail system along wooded bluffs with views of Shell Lake and downtown Tulsa. You can rent a cabin to experience the peaceful setting overnight for your own personal retreat. Our rental rates include three meals a day in our dining room, where you'll eat alongside other guests and residents of our community. The Forest also offers a full range of programs and retreats on meditation and spiritual topics.
You have a range of options to experience meditation in a way that suits you. You might choose to join our resident community for meditation held Tuesday through Saturday at 7:00 a.m., 12:00 noon, or 4:45 p.m., and on Sunday at 9:45 a.m. in our Meditation Chapel. Here you'll experience a meditation of 25 to 45 minutes with others who can help guide you.
Or, you may wish to simply rake the Zen Garden as you contemplate the prayer flags in the trees overhead. If you prefer to move while meditating, walking the labyrinth or hiking the trails will give you a chance to reconnect with nature. The Cave of the Mothers provides you with a dark, quiet place where you will be amazed by the sound of your chanting reverberating all around you.
Meals
Menu Types
What's Included
- Meals.
- Meditation.
What's Not Included
- Airfare.
Customer Reviews
Peace Indeed
I did start out on a walk on a trail that was rewarding me with sights of mushrooms, anthills, rocks, leaves and more treats to the point that two hours had passed and I could not find the trail head to guide me back to the main site. I wasn’t “lost”-I could tell where I was on the map-but need help finding the way back. Help was a phone call away, and David found me and guided me back. I had reached my limits physically and am forever grateful for his coming and assisting me in finding my way.
Anyone seeking a welcoming place in their life may be assured that the Osage Forest of Peace is there for us. It can be a challenging world, and I thank God and the hardy nuns from 1980 for giving us this precious resource for our souls. We need to support the forest and one another in our journeys here on earth, for ourselves and those who will come.
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Hard to Fibd
The less people know about this place of tranquility, , all the better!