18th Annual Rimay Monlam

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191 Cragsmoor Road, Cragsmoor, NY, USA
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Up to 20 in group
Date
June 8 - 11, 2025

Retreat Highlights

  • Intimate setting with personal access to the teacher
  • Interactive sessions with question and answer periods
  • Shamatha and guided meditations
  • Delicious all-vegetarian meals with locally sourced ingredients
  • Option to extend stay on Personal Retreat
  • Extensive library of dharma books
  • Expansive wooded grounds with beautiful paths, flora and fauna

About this Retreat

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A Tibetan Buddhist Non-sectarian Convocation to Promote Peace, Harmony and Health Throughout the World
RETREAT BY INVITED PRESENTER
Monlam means a way to give voice to and realize our highest aspirations. It is a collective and personal spiritual mission statement. We will gather over these four days to harness, focus, and direct the natural power of our own minds, and invoke the power of the reality of interdependence through prayers and recitations. The positive energy, clarity, and love generated through this gathering has inspired attendees year after year, and they have taken this energy back into their lives and activities after the program concludes. This year will will conclude with a Saga Dawa Celebration. Please join us. You will leave this gathering inspired, energized, and activated.
"This weekend gave me a new zest for both the outdoors and the benefits of a retreat in a scenic and magical landscape."
DUAL PROGRAM: Pair with Sadhana Practice: Expanding Our Compassion for All Beings, led by Tulku Sherdor, June 4-8, and save 10% off your room stay. REGISTER HERE



PROGRAM DESCRIPTION
A monlam chenmo is not just a ceremonial recitation of prayers. It covers the entire Buddhist path of training over the course of each day. The daily program begins with renewal of the refuge and bodhicitta commitments, progresses through ever more sublime meditation rituals, and concludes with a series of aspiration and dedication prayers. These are the three excellences, in the beginning, the middle, and the end.

All of the recitations are performed as don gom, with undistracted attention to both the words and their meaning at all times. Thus, recitation and meditation are synonymous, and mutually reinforcing. Concentrating on the words while seated in meditation posture, and visualizing clearly or reflecting upon what the words describe, is calm abiding, śamatha. The insights to which the words direct you, blossoming within your own mind, are vipaśyanā. Don gom therefore is an instance of the unity of śamatha and vipaśyanā, the two main components of all Buddhist meditation systems.

A monlam chenmo program encompasses all three major vehicles of Buddhist practice, and the trainings in view, meditation, and conduct of both sūtra and tantra. It is designed to expedite and enhance the two accumulations of relative merit and ultimate wisdom. The practice of monlam thus is not only don gom; it is also mos gom. Mos gom means that we are not just aspiring to, but actually modeling, the state of liberation, of universal enlightenment, consistent with the view and approach of Mantrayāna.

That said, whether, as Buddhists, we conceive that we are praying to enlightened beings who are imagined to be out there somewhere, or whether we see our prayers as simply a skillful means to connect with the Buddha Nature that is the ground and ultimate state of our own being, really makes no difference. Either view, being conceptual, is simply provisional, and indicative. Our efforts will bear fruit, no matter which concept fits our minds better. Thus, everyone can participate in a monlam at his or her own level, with full benefit.



 

The term 'prayer' hardly captures the sense of any of the Tibetan terms it is employed to translate. In particular, the term monlam denotes a way, an approach, to formulating and realizing our highest aspirations. It is an articulation of purpose: a mission statement. Thus, monlam lacks any connotation of helplessness which the notion of prayer, in English, might carry. It also belies the notion of prayer as mere wishful thinking. Rather, for practicing Buddhists, a monlam harnesses and directs the natural power of our own minds, and invokes the power of the reality of interdependence, to yield actual results or benefits from our effort, dedication, and purpose. This dynamic is conveyed by the den tsig, or declaration of truth, with which an aspiration prayer typically concludes.

Thus, when we pray, "may that to which we have aspired come to pass,” we assemble the causal factors, and articulate the reasons why the desired outcome should transpire, rather than ask for a result that magically circumvents the conventional truth of interdependence. Through our aspiration prayers, all necessary and supporting factors of relative and ultimate truth are invoked, such that, through the reality of interdependence, the effect to which we aspire is brought that much closer to becoming true.

Prayer, in other words, is about bridging the gap from ‘aspiring’ to ‘transpiring.’ In the Buddhist view, everything good that we do, and can accomplish, begins as an aspiration. A monlam both crystallizes our intentions, and helps us to realize them; it helps us resolve our goals, and leads us toward them. We recite a monlam to chart the course of our own spiritual practice and progress.

Aspirations channel our life force, enabling us to cross the gap, or leap over the divide, between where we find ourselves in one moment, and strive to be in another. It is, once again, through powerful aspirations to serve the needs of living beings, fueled by the power of mental and physical energies gathered through arduous practice, focused prayer, and virtuous acts, that evolved beings—bodhisattvas—incarnate to show us the way forward, and to preserve and uphold the lineages and teachings of Buddhadharma.
Saga Dawa Celebration: The final day of this year’s Rime Monlam will be on the auspicious day of Saga Dawa, the celebration of the birth, enlightenment, and parinirvana of Shakyamuni Buddha.  We will offer specific prayers for that day and we will offer a concluding tsok (feast) practice.

EVENT HIGHLIGHTS

Intimate setting with personal access to the teacher
Interactive sessions with question and answer periods
Guided meditations
Aspirations for the welfare of all sentient beings
Opportunity to pair with Sadhana Practice: Expanding Our Compassion for All Beings and receive discounted accommodations fees
Delicious all-vegetarian meals with locally sourced ingredients
Option to extend stay on Personal Retreat
Extensive library of dharma books
Expansive wooded grounds with beautiful paths, flora and fauna

OPEN TO ALL
The program is appropriate for all levels of practitioner. It is not physically rigorous, but it does consist of sitting and reciting during each session.
ADDITIONAL INFORMATION
There are no prerequisites. We will provide the material needed for the program. However, if people wish to study or review the material before hand or purchase the book for themselves they may. The Monlam is primarily from  A Book of Common Tibetan Buddhist Prayers, which can be found at https://shop.blazingwisdom.org/index.php/books/a-book-of-common-tibetan-buddhist-prayers-3rd


SCHEDULE
(subject to change)

Sunday, June 8




2:00 PM
Check in begins


4:00-6:00 PM
Welcome and Introduction



Program Begins


6:00-7:00 PM
Dinner



Monday, June 9-Tuesday, June 10




8:00-9:00 AM
Breakfast


8:45-11:30 AM
Program






12:00-1:30 PM
Lunch






1:45-5:30 PM
Program


6:00-7:00 PM
Dinner


7:00 PM
Informal gathering around the firepit



Wednesday, June 11




8:00-9:00 AM
Breakfast


8:45-11:30 AM
Saga Dawa Celebration






12:00-1:00 PM
Lunch


1:00 PM
Checkout and Departure







 

Schedule

7:30-8:00 AM: Morning Mediation and Salutations
8:00-9:00 AM Breakfast
9:00 AM-12:00 PM: Program or free time
12:00-1:00 PM: Lunch
1:00-6:00 PM: Program or free time
6:00-7:00 PM: Dinner
10:00 PM Lights Out
Note: Schedule is approximate and may change

Getting Here

Location icon Dharmakaya Center for Wellbeing, 191 Cragsmoor Road, Cragsmoor, NY, USA

Directions

CAR. You will find a link for driving directions on our website. The parking lot is immediately to your left when you enter the Center grounds. You may drive up and drop your luggage at the Welcome Center, but may not leave your car unattended there; someone will be happy to shuttle you back down to the parking lot.

TRAIN. From Newark, La Guardia and Penn Station, you can take the Metro North train into Middletown, New York, approximately a 30-minute drive from the Center. For teachings, retreats and other special events, we will provide van service at set times. Otherwise, please take a taxi from the train station to the Center.

BUS. From New York City, you can take the Shortline Bus into Ellenville, New York, approximately a 15-minute drive from the Center. For teachings, retreats and other special events, we will provide van service at set times. Otherwise, please take a taxi from the train station to the Center.

PLANE. Newark, La Guardia and Stewart Airports all offer convenient services. From Newark or LaGuardia you can complete your trip by train; from Stewart you may rent a car or take a taxi service.

Accommodation

Our two residence halls offer a simple, peaceful environment that supports your retreat experience, with rooms for those on both personal and solitary retreats. Each room has a meditation cushion and zabuton. Rates include breakfast, lunch and dinner with the resident community, as well as towels and housekeeping. All guests are welcome, but not required, to join the daily meditation and other activities (although separate tickets are required for all ticketed events). • Our junior suites have a double bed, private bath, private terrace, a refrigerator and ample room for practice. • Our private rooms have a double bed and room for private meditation, with a shared bath. Rooms may be shared by those in a committed relationship.

Commuter

Accommodation
Our Commuter Fee covers the costs of all meals during your retreat and the use of all our facilities.

Private Room: Single

Accommodation
This comfortable room has a double bed and ample room for meditation. It is outfitted with a desk and small table suitable for a meditation object; it shares a bath with one or two other rooms. All rooms are furnished with linens, pillows, blankets, coverlets, and towels, as well as a meditation cushion and zabuton. The room rate includes three delicious vegetarian meals each day; in addition, there is a tea station on every hall.

Private Room: Couple

Accommodation
This registration fee is for two people. This comfortable room has one double bed, and may be shared by couples in a committed relationship. With ample room for meditation, it features a desk and small table suitable for a meditation object. All rooms are furnished with linens, pillows, blankets, coverlets, and towels, as well as a meditation cushion and zabuton. The room shares a bath with one or two other rooms. Room rates include three delicious vegetarian meals each day (6 total meals for a couple room); there is also a tea station on each hall.

Junior Suite: Single

Accommodation
These large rooms have one double bed, a private bath, private terrace, a refrigerator and ample room for practice. Each room has a small table suitable for a meditation object and a meditation cushion and zabaton, as well as a desk and an armoire. Room rates include three delicious vegetarian meals each day; there is also an in-room tea station.

Junior Suite: Couple

Accommodation
This reservation fee is for two people and includes three delicious vegetarian meals each day (6 total for a couple). This large room has one double bed, which may be shared by couples in a committed relationship. In addition, it has a private bath, private terrace, a refrigerator and ample room for practice. Each room has a small table suitable for a meditation object and a meditation cushion and zabaton, as well as a desk and an armoire.

Venue & Amenities

Venue & Amenities
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Free Wifi icon Free Wifi
Spa icon Spa
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Pool icon Pool
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Free Parking icon Free Parking
Kitchen icon Kitchen
Tour Assistance icon Tour Assistance
Hot Tub icon Hot Tub
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Cafe icon Cafe
Restaurant icon Restaurant
Fitness Center icon Fitness Center
Yoga Studio icon Yoga Studio
Housekeeping icon Housekeeping
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Perched atop a wooded hillside in the hamlet of Cragsmoor, the Dharmakaya Center for Wellbeing is surrounded by 90 acres of forest. The Center opened in 2017 and was purpose built to support retreats. With only 20 bedrooms, our retreats are small, keeping the retreat experience intimate. People regularly comment both on the cleanliness of the buildings and on the total sense of peace that envelopes you when on campus.

Meals

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Ancient wisdom describes food as a source of prana, or life force. The Dharmakaya Center for Wellbeing was founded on the premise that nourishing food is integral to wellbeing. Our chefs are passionate about creating meals that are both flavorful and healthy. We use the freshest, most nutritious, least processed foods available; when possible our ingredients are organic and locally sourced. Breakfast, lunch and dinner are included in your accommodation fee. To promote good health, we serve delicious, varied, nutritious vegetarian food, with options at every meal. All our meals are served on a buffet, with ingredients listed next to each dish, enabling guests to avoid dairy, as well as glutens, nuts and other allergens.

What's Included

  • Comfortable accommodations with queen bed in every room
  • All linens
  • Three delicious, farm-fresh vegetarian meals a day
  • Tea station and fruit bowl always available
  • Large Meditation Hall and private Meditation Room
  • Extensive library of dharma books
  • Cozy chairs and fireplace
  • 90-acre campus with walking trails and outdoor meditation spots
  • Fire pit
  • Outdoor practice pavilion

What's Not Included

  • Travel to the Center

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My retreat was great met alot of interesting people from everywhere as far as Brazil and China most people were from New Jersey. The food was great. I was in the yoga class on a chair and then decided I wanted to sit on the mat i miss and landed on the floor. There was so many people that just jumped out to help me. The place is very peaceful it feels like one big family. Catherine Asaro

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Peace in a comfortable environment
From the moment I arrived I was impressed with how peaceful and immaculate the entire facility is. The rooms had exactly what I needed with a comfortable bed and pillows, meditation table and cushions, and a desk. Towels were provided as well. Vegetarian meals were delicious. I was able to immerse myself in the silent meditation retreat and focus on deepening my practice. This is a perfect place for me and I’m already planning my next retreat.

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Beautiful spot
Dharmakaya Center is a beautiful & peaceful spot. Highly recommend! The center is immaculate and well maintained. Great staff and facilities.

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If you are looking for a place to unwind and grow spiritually while eating the best food this place is for you. Brand-new beautiful facility, super friendly stuff and relaxing atmosphere - I don’t know the better way to spend a weekend. I enjoyed my stay and I’m coming back!

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I was in a wonderful art work shop and it was amazing. Accommodations where beautiful. Food was delicious and fantastic.
Beautiful grounds lovely walking experience. . The staff was delightful.

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