About this Retreat
Lady A is the creator of The DOMME Method™ and brings over a decade of experience in power exchange, professional dominance, and female-led relationships. Her approach blends shadow work, sensual ritual, and leadership coaching to help clients reclaim their voice, desire, and dominance — without the overwhelm.
As a certified coach with roots in the professional BDSM world, Lady A specializes in helping women build power with purpose, and helping submissives learn how to surrender safely and consciously.
Details of this retreat
Step into a transformative journey designed exclusively for committed partners ready to deepen trust, expand intimacy, and master the art of consensual power exchange. Over 2½ immersive days, you’ll explore every dimension of BDSM—from negotiating limits and perfecting safewords to crafting unforgettable scenes—under the expert guidance of Lady A.
From the moment you arrive on Friday evening, you’ll be held in a container of absolute discretion and care. Our small-group format (just four couples) ensures personalized coaching at every station:
Negotiation & Consent Foundations: Learn to articulate desires, set clear boundaries, and co-create safe, thrilling experiences that honor both partners.
Boundary Exploration: Through guided exercises, discover how to stretch emotional and physical edges while maintaining trust and mutual respect.
Role-Play & Power Exchange: Step into new personas with confidence—whether commanding or surrendering—and practice dynamic role reversals in a supportive setting.
Sensation & Impact Play: Sample a variety of tools and techniques, from feather-light caresses to measured impact, learning how to calibrate intensity and aftercare effectively.
Evening rituals and catered meals provide space to integrate your discoveries, while our dedicated aftercare lounge offers warm blankets, comfort snacks, and one-on-one check-ins to ensure you leave feeling nurtured and empowered.
By Sunday morning, you’ll emerge with:
A personalized Play Plan to continue your exploration at home.
Proven communication frameworks for ongoing consent and negotiation.
A renewed sense of connection, confidence, and creativity in your relationship.
Whether you’re new to BDSM or looking to elevate your practice, the Architect Our Desire bootcamp delivers the structure, safety, and inspiration you need to unlock deeper levels of pleasure, presence, and partnership. Spaces are extremely limited—reserve your couple’s spot today and begin the most intimate adventure of your lives.