Oaks Retreat: Living a Life you Love

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Up to 30 in group
Date
January 24 - 26, 2025

About this Retreat

Details of this retreat

Price includes lodging, programming, fitness/yoga classes, contrast therapy and meals. Extra experiences (like massage or 1:1 coaching) can be added on separately after you register.

Everything on the schedule is optional. We want you to get what you need out of this weekend.

Check-in is Friday between 2:00-4:00pm. The first session is 4:30pm on Friday. We wrap up on Sunday around 10:30am, but we are about an hour outside San Diego and recommend planning some buffer time for travel and lunch so you're not rushed leaving. We also have an early-check in option if you'd like to add an extra day and come on Thursday. Then you would have 3 nights and 2 full days of full access to the property amenities, classes, and pre-retreat programming. You'll see that add-on as an option when you register.



 

Habits are the building blocks of a fulfilling life. They provide structure, enhance efficiency, and empower us to pursue our aspirations. By cultivating positive habits, we can create a life that aligns with our values and brings genuine happiness. As James Clear, author of Atomic Habits, reminds us, “To love your habits is to love your days, and to love your days is to love your life.”

During this retreat, we will explore the core principles of habit formation and delve into the psychology behind successful habits. Discover how even the smallest changes can lead to remarkable results, and develop a personalized habit-building plan tailored to your goals. Through interactive sessions, you’ll learn the power of identity-based habits and how to align them with who you truly are, rather than the expectations of who you should be.

The weekend offers a balanced mix of optional workshops, personal reflection, and free time to rest, play, and explore. You’ll leave with a deeper understanding of habit psychology, practical strategies to kickstart your transformation, and the motivation to make lasting change.

In a world filled with quick fixes and overnight successes, we believe in the power of small beginnings. It's time to shift our hustle mindset and take cues from the rhythms of nature, where growth is gradual, collaborative, and sustainable. Play is another key element—helping us soften our fears of failure and build resilience. Join us for this transformative journey, where nurturing habits become the foundation for a life well-lived.

 



OPTIONAL WORKSHOPS
subject to change.

Pre-Retreat Session: Setting Your Intentions

For early arrivals, we'll start with a pre-session focused on exploring the current landscape of your habits. We’ll reflect on the patterns that have shaped your life, celebrate your successes, and identify obstacles that have held you back. This session sets the tone for the weekend, offering a chance to pause, gain perspective, and prepare for the journey of transformation ahead.

 

Workshop 1: Cultivating the Foundation: Understanding the Psychology of Habits

Delve into the psychology of why we form habits and why some are harder to change. You'll learn how to design and implement effective habit loops and examine past successes and challenges. By understanding the foundation of your habits, you'll be better equipped to make lasting changes with intention.

 

Workshop 2: The Power of Identity-Based Habits: Aligning with Who You Are Becoming

Habits are closely linked to our sense of identity. In this workshop, you’ll explore how your habits can align with the person you aspire to be. Learn how to craft an identity-based habit vision that supports your growth and discover how aligning your actions with your true self can lead to powerful, lasting change.

 

Workshop 3: Nature and Play as Our Guides: Finding Joyful Progress

Nature shows us the beauty of gradual, sustainable growth. In this session, you’ll learn how to align your habits with the rhythms of the natural world to create lasting transformation. We’ll also explore the role of play in habit change, discovering how to incorporate joy and spontaneity into our journey toward growth.

 

Workshop 4: Nurturing Sustainable Change: Building a Lasting Foundation
The key to lasting habit change is integration. This workshop will guide you in exploring habit-stacking techniques that make change feel effortless. You’ll clarify your vision for who you are and where you're headed, creating kind reminders and invitations that support your ongoing transformation.

 



 

Why This Matters

Transforming our habits is about more than just achieving goals; it's about aligning our actions with our values and the person we want to become. This retreat isn’t about quick fixes—it's about building a sustainable foundation for lasting change. By understanding the psychology of our habits and learning to nurture them with kindness, we can create a life that feels more intentional and fulfilling.

 

Who This Retreat Is For

This retreat is for anyone ready to understand their habits on a deeper level and make meaningful, lasting changes. Whether you're looking to break old patterns, cultivate new ones, or simply understand what drives your behavior, this retreat offers a space for self-discovery and growth. If you want to create a more sustainable and compassionate relationship with your habits, this weekend is for you. Join us alone, with a partner, or with friends, and let's embark on a journey of transforming our habits together.

 

 

 

Getting Here

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Directions

From HWY 78, look for the large blue and gold GOLDEN EAGLE FARM SIGN and two tall Cyprus trees on your left. The best way to know your turn is coming if you are coming from the East will be the center turn lane. Turn Left on Golden Eagle Road and stay left to follow the signs to The Oaks, approximately 1.5 miles back off the 78.

Once you arrive to The Oaks gate, continue to the top of the circle drive to unload your belongings and then promptly drive back down to the first parking lot on your left. If that parking lot is full, please continue down the end of the driveway and park in the lot on your right.

Please follow event details for specific check in procedures.
If the gate is locked, please wait in the parking lot outside the gate or call The Oaks main line.
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Accommodation

STANDARD includes (1) private room, shared bathroom

Accommodation
This selection includes: (1) Shared Bedroom, shared bathroom. (2) Queen/Twin Beds. Great for individuals that are attending as an individual and open to a roommate of the same gender. This booking is for 1 bed in a shared room. Max occupancy per room is (2). If placed in a room with a bunk, you will have access to a bottom bunk.  Please note by booking this selection, you are agreeing to The Oaks placing one additional guest of the same gender in the room you may not know. 

DELUXE includes (1) private room, semi-private bathroom

Accommodation
This selection includes: (1) Private Bedroom. (1) King/Twin Bed. This room may have an additional bed but no roommate will be assigned. Great for individuals that want their own private bedroom. These rooms are located in Ballena, our 12 bedroom, 6 bathroom lodge. For every two rooms, there is a bathroom shared with one other person of the same gender. In addition, each bedroom has its own sink and mirror. All the doors to the bathrooms and bedrooms lock.

PREMIUM includes (1) private room, private bathroom

Accommodation
This selection includes: (1) Private Bedroom and Bathroom for one. (1) Queen Bed. Great for individuals that want a private bedroom and bathroom. 

DOUBLE OCCUPANCY includes (1) private room with K/Q Bed, private bathroom

Accommodation
This selection includes: (1) Private Bedroom. (1) King/Queen Bed. Great for couples or friends that don't mind sharing a bed.

DOUBLE OCCUPANCY includes (1) private room, 2 beds (size varies), private bathroom

Accommodation
This selection includes: (1) Private Bedroom, Private Bathroom. (2) Queen beds or (1) Queen and (1) Twin Bed. Great for couples or friends that prefer their own bed in the same room.

Venue & Amenities

A/C in Rooms icon A/C in Rooms
Free Wifi icon Free Wifi
Spa icon Spa
Sauna icon Sauna
Pool icon Pool
Towels icon Towels
Free Parking icon Free Parking
Kitchen icon Kitchen
Tour Assistance icon Tour Assistance
Hot Tub icon Hot Tub
Coffee/Tea icon Coffee/Tea
Cafe icon Cafe
Restaurant icon Restaurant
Fitness Center icon Fitness Center
Yoga Studio icon Yoga Studio
Housekeeping icon Housekeeping
Bicycles For Rent icon Bicycles For Rent

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Customer Reviews

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5.0
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Attention to Detail with all the personal touches
Wow. What a spot. The Oaks has everything you need to rest and make a memory or two. Instagram-worthy decor - imagine if Joanna Gaines remodeled a youth camp - makes this place cozy and comfortable. The staff was so friendly and kind and learned everyone's name the first day. The food was on the level of any resort you could go to. And the pool - let's just say that you HAVE to do the slide and high dive. I'd say more but let's do our best to keep this gem of southern California a secret.

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A wonderful escape to slow down and focus on one's self
I registered for a weekend retreat, and was rewarded with a place to rest, find some clarity (and tools to use for later), make connections with others, and relax. The weekend had emotionally challenging conversations and workshops, as well as time for fun. I would like to go back again, and make The Oaks part of a regular rhythm of my life. You have to show up, and make the space to do the emotional, and spiritual work. You will get out what you put into the program. The food was delicious- in a way that you were not stuffed and, never left feeling hungry, to be fueled for the day. I am sure that the menu was intentionally designed to provide you a healthy foundation for the weekend. The property is gorgeous. I often just laid under the oaks to read and reflect, and enjoyed sitting on the deck, in a rocking chair, connecting with others.

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Amazing grounds, staff and food!
Loved everything about The Oaks! The room was lovely, very clean and well furnished. I stayed in the Kendall building. The food was EXCELLENT and was able to accommodate for my gluten-free and dairy-free food options. The staff was SUPER friendly and helpful, esp with the golf carts bringing you back and forth to your car and helping with the bags. The atmosphere was very relaxed and peaceful. My favorite part was the trail riding and also the hike to the water tower to watch the sunset. Highly recommend for a solitary retreat or group retreat or any other type of retreat event!
My only advice would be to allow extra time to get there- depending on where you are driving from. I drove from the Orange County area and it took over 3 hours to get there on a Friday afternoon (left at 2pm and got there around 530pm). On the way home- late Sunday afternoon- it only took an hour and half to get back (no traffic).

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Absolutely Fantastic
This was my second time at a Flagship Retreat at The Oaks.
The property is well appointed, comfortable, and not at all cluttered.
The staff is delightful and very hospitable. I felt right at home the moment I arrived and all throughout the weekend.
The pace of the Flagship Retreat is spot on. They have truly crafted all of the right elements for a thoughtful, restful, and very fun retreat.
I'll be back!

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WOW
I just finished a Flagship Retreat with Stephanie!!! WOW and WOW again is what is on my heart. She lead from a place of peace, love, and GRACE. The weekend was exactly what I needed. From her, the crew of volunteers (Ellie, Ellie 2 (Stephanie's daughter), Rossi, Rica, Jeremy, Maggie and hub Zane, and the chef's - EVERYTHING was fantastic. I highly recommend this retreat and The Oaks for any event or meeting. Thank you!