5 Day Intimacy Couples Retreat - SEMI-PRIVATE
5 Day Intimacy Couples Retreat - SEMI-PRIVATE
59-390 Wilinau Road, Haleiwa, HI, USA
Up to 4 in group
Open Dates
Retreat Highlights
- 5-Day Semi-Private Couples Intimacy Retreat – Limited to 4 Couples
- Step into a transformational, immersive retreat designed to awaken every dimension of your relationship. Set on the North Shore of Oahu, this semi-private retreat combines evidence-based therapy, curated excursions, and Flow™ Theory of Relationship Energy, a proprietary system found nowhere else in the world. With only 4 couples per week, you receive a perfect balance of personalized guidance and small-group synergy.
- Workshops:
- Over 10 two-hour personalized sessions, explore all 8 forms of intimacy—emotional, sexual, physical, experiential, intellectual, spiritual, recreational, and financial. Workshops are designed to be deeply customized to your relationship energy and include:
- 1. Libido Rejuvenation & Alignment
- 2. Gottman-Based Resentment Repair (Phase 1 + EMDR)
- 3. Somatic Bodywork & Breathwork (including Tantra & Karezza)
- 4. Arousal Amplifier Techniques
- 5. Introduction to Kink & Erotic Exploration
- 6. Holistic Health & Integrative Medicine
- 7. Mindfulness, Meditation & Meditative Movement
- 8. Sexual Biofeedback & Pelvic Floor Activation
- 9. Gottman-Based Reconnection (Phase 2 + 3 Repair)
- 10. Re-Commitment Beach Ceremony
- Excursions:
- Choose 5 hand-picked adventures to complement your workshops and deepen experiential intimacy, including:
- 1.Snorkeling with turtles or dolphins
- 2. Paumalu Pillbox Hike or Ka'ena State Park scenic hike
- 3. Beehive tour and honey tasting at Hanai Hives
- 4 Hawaiian Luau dinner and show at Toa Luau
- 5. Swim under a waterfall at Waimea Botanical Gardens
- 6. Private surf or SUP lessons from a local
- 7. Chef-prepared aphrodisiac picnic on a beach at sunset
- 8. Couples Oracle reading
- 9. Private Yoga or PFilates class
- 10. Couples Energy Portraits
- 11. Create your own luxury Signature Perfume
- 12. Concierge Nutritive IV Package with Glowasis
- Meals & Daily Nourishment:
- Lunches included, curated to nourish body and mind.
- Other meals not included, allowing couples to explore local cuisine.
- Each 2-hour workshop concludes with gifts and resources to reinforce learning and intimacy growth.
- Private Grounds & Amenities:
- During downtime, enjoy access to:
- 8-Person Finnish Steam Sauna, Electronic Cold Plunge, Full-service outdoor gym (rower, bike, Pilates reformer, weights), Joovv Red Light Therapy Machine, Medicinal Cabinet of Essential Oils, Dr. Bathurst’s Library, Yoga mats for personal practice, Walking Meditation Lavender Garden
- Why This Retreat is Special:
- - Small, intimate group setting with maximum personalization.
- - Evidence-based workshops fused with adventure, play, and experiential learning.
- - Designed to awaken all 8 forms of intimacy and uncover your unique relationship energy.
- - Flow™ Theory ensures a proprietary, world-class methodology for lasting transformation.
- By the end of this retreat, you’ll leave with rekindled passion, profound emotional and sexual connection, and tools to sustain extraordinary intimacy in your relationship. Guaranteed, dramatic growth!
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- Book your Semi-Private Couples Retreat and transform your relationship in 5 days!
About this Retreat
Your Guides
Dr. Stephanie Bathurst is a Licensed Clinical Marriage and Family Therapist and a Board Certified Clinical Sexologist. As owner of Bathurst Family Therapy, LLC., Dr. Bathurst offers 1-1 sessions, Hawaiian Couples Retreats and intensive online programs to clients across the world. As a visionary and leader in her field, Dr. Bathurst has won multiple awards of excellence and can be found in Brainz and Giddy Magazine, CNN, BRAVO, MSNBC, OWN and podcasts discussing sex, relationships and health.
Dr. Bathurst is a certified Integrative Medicine Specialist for Mental Health, a Certified Life Coach and a Certified PFilates Instructor for pelvic floor conditioning. She holds certifications in Kink-Conscious Therapy, Discernment Counseling, Trauma Reprocessing and Emotional Freedom Technique (Acupressure Tapping), among others that blend traditional and holistic health.
Details of this retreat
5-Day Semi-Private Couples Intimacy Retreat (Maximum of 4 couples per retreat week)
Step into a transformational 5-day journey designed to reignite passion, deepen intimacy, and awaken all 8 forms of connection using Dr. Stephanie Bathurst’s Flow™ Theory of Relationship Energy, a system found nowhere else in the world. We are the only retreat experience in the US that blends:
1. Sex AND Relationship Therapy
2. Adventurous excursions AND Therapy
3. In a private setting
4. Guided directly by a highly trained, fully licensed provider
What’s Included:
Therapist-Led Workshops: Ten 2-hour sessions covering libido alignment, resentment repair, somatic bodywork, mindfulness, sexual biofeedback, and more, fully customizable to your relationship’s energy patterns.
Hand-Picked Excursions: Five adventures of your choosing—from snorkeling with dolphins and waterfall swims to Hawaiian luaus and private surf lessons.
Daily Nourishment: Hearty, chef-prepared lunches and curated gifts/resources after each session.
Private Amenities & Wellness: 8-person Finnish sauna, cold plunge, full outdoor gym, Joovv Red Light Therapy, essential oils, walking meditation lavender garden, and yoga/Pilates practice space.
This semi-private (small-group) retreat experience prioritizes 100% attention and time on you and your partner for 5 days. This retreat experience, unlike any other in the world, is curated, private, and deeply immersive in workshops and excursions, giving you renewed passion, profound intimacy, and practical tools to sustain your connection in as little as 5 days!
✅ Book your Semi-Private Couples Retreat and transform your relationship in 5 days!
Step into a transformational 5-day journey designed to reignite passion, deepen intimacy, and awaken all 8 forms of connection using Dr. Stephanie Bathurst’s Flow™ Theory of Relationship Energy, a system found nowhere else in the world. We are the only retreat experience in the US that blends:
1. Sex AND Relationship Therapy
2. Adventurous excursions AND Therapy
3. In a private setting
4. Guided directly by a highly trained, fully licensed provider
What’s Included:
Therapist-Led Workshops: Ten 2-hour sessions covering libido alignment, resentment repair, somatic bodywork, mindfulness, sexual biofeedback, and more, fully customizable to your relationship’s energy patterns.
Hand-Picked Excursions: Five adventures of your choosing—from snorkeling with dolphins and waterfall swims to Hawaiian luaus and private surf lessons.
Daily Nourishment: Hearty, chef-prepared lunches and curated gifts/resources after each session.
Private Amenities & Wellness: 8-person Finnish sauna, cold plunge, full outdoor gym, Joovv Red Light Therapy, essential oils, walking meditation lavender garden, and yoga/Pilates practice space.
This semi-private (small-group) retreat experience prioritizes 100% attention and time on you and your partner for 5 days. This retreat experience, unlike any other in the world, is curated, private, and deeply immersive in workshops and excursions, giving you renewed passion, profound intimacy, and practical tools to sustain your connection in as little as 5 days!
✅ Book your Semi-Private Couples Retreat and transform your relationship in 5 days!
Schedule
5-Day Semi-Private Couples Retreat – Sample Daily Agenda
Day 1: Arrival & Connection
Morning: Arrival and welcome orientation at the private ocean-view farm.
Workshop 1: Libido Rejuvenation & Alignment (2 hours) – Rediscover sexual energy and harmonize desire.
Lunch: Hearty farm-to-table lunch.
Workshop 2: Somatic Bodywork & Breathwork (including Tantra & Karezza) – Reawaken bodily awareness.
Afternoon Excursion: Sunset Hills Scenic Hike – Grounding experience in nature, connecting mind and body.
Evening: Reflection and journaling session with curated resources.
Day 2: Emotional & Sexual Intimacy
Morning Workshop 3: Gottman-Based Resentment Repair (Phase 1 + EMDR) – Heal past hurts and restore emotional safety.
Lunch: Healthy, nourishing lunch with couple-focused discussion prompts.
Workshop 4: Arousal Amplifier Techniques – Learn actionable tools to increase sexual energy and shared pleasure.
Afternoon Excursion: Snorkeling with turtles – Experiential intimacy and playful adventure.
Evening: Optional walking meditation in the lavender garden.
Day 3: Mindfulness & Erotic Exploration
Morning Workshop 5: Introduction to Kink & Erotic Exploration – Safely explore erotic curiosity and communication.
Workshop 6: Mindfulness, Meditation & Meditative Movement – Cultivate presence and conscious connection.
Lunch: Curated couples lunch.
Afternoon Excursion: Private Surf or SUP Lessons – Fun, adventurous, and confidence-building.
Evening: Reflection, discussion, and resource sharing.
Day 4: Reconnection & Holistic Health
Morning Workshop 7: Holistic Health & Integrative Medicine for Individual Enlightenment – Optimize mind, body, and nervous system.
Workshop 8: Sexual Biofeedback & Pelvic Floor Activation – Build stamina, enhance pleasure, and improve responsiveness.
Lunch: Nourishing meal on the farm.
Afternoon Excursion: Couples Energy Portraits – Personalized artwork integrating personal energy.
Evening: Guided meditation and journaling.
Day 5: Celebration & Commitment
Morning Workshop 9: Gottman-Based Reconnection (Phase 2 + 3 Repair) – Strengthen emotional attunement and reintegrate sensual touch.
Workshop 10: Re-Commitment Beach Ceremony – Private ceremony with Hawaiian blessings.
Lunch: Celebration lunch with gifts and resources.
Afternoon Excursion: Create Your Own Luxury Signature Perfume – Fun, playful, and sensory-focused experience.
Closing: Reflection, integration exercises, and next steps for sustaining intimacy.
Day 1: Arrival & Connection
Morning: Arrival and welcome orientation at the private ocean-view farm.
Workshop 1: Libido Rejuvenation & Alignment (2 hours) – Rediscover sexual energy and harmonize desire.
Lunch: Hearty farm-to-table lunch.
Workshop 2: Somatic Bodywork & Breathwork (including Tantra & Karezza) – Reawaken bodily awareness.
Afternoon Excursion: Sunset Hills Scenic Hike – Grounding experience in nature, connecting mind and body.
Evening: Reflection and journaling session with curated resources.
Day 2: Emotional & Sexual Intimacy
Morning Workshop 3: Gottman-Based Resentment Repair (Phase 1 + EMDR) – Heal past hurts and restore emotional safety.
Lunch: Healthy, nourishing lunch with couple-focused discussion prompts.
Workshop 4: Arousal Amplifier Techniques – Learn actionable tools to increase sexual energy and shared pleasure.
Afternoon Excursion: Snorkeling with turtles – Experiential intimacy and playful adventure.
Evening: Optional walking meditation in the lavender garden.
Day 3: Mindfulness & Erotic Exploration
Morning Workshop 5: Introduction to Kink & Erotic Exploration – Safely explore erotic curiosity and communication.
Workshop 6: Mindfulness, Meditation & Meditative Movement – Cultivate presence and conscious connection.
Lunch: Curated couples lunch.
Afternoon Excursion: Private Surf or SUP Lessons – Fun, adventurous, and confidence-building.
Evening: Reflection, discussion, and resource sharing.
Day 4: Reconnection & Holistic Health
Morning Workshop 7: Holistic Health & Integrative Medicine for Individual Enlightenment – Optimize mind, body, and nervous system.
Workshop 8: Sexual Biofeedback & Pelvic Floor Activation – Build stamina, enhance pleasure, and improve responsiveness.
Lunch: Nourishing meal on the farm.
Afternoon Excursion: Couples Energy Portraits – Personalized artwork integrating personal energy.
Evening: Guided meditation and journaling.
Day 5: Celebration & Commitment
Morning Workshop 9: Gottman-Based Reconnection (Phase 2 + 3 Repair) – Strengthen emotional attunement and reintegrate sensual touch.
Workshop 10: Re-Commitment Beach Ceremony – Private ceremony with Hawaiian blessings.
Lunch: Celebration lunch with gifts and resources.
Afternoon Excursion: Create Your Own Luxury Signature Perfume – Fun, playful, and sensory-focused experience.
Closing: Reflection, integration exercises, and next steps for sustaining intimacy.
Note: Schedule is approximate and may change
Getting Here
Bathurst Family Therapy, LLC., 59-390 Wilinau Road, Haleiwa, HI, USA
Directions
We are a 3-minute drive down the hill to the famous North Shore beaches. Located in Sunset Hills of Pupukea, North Shore, Oahu, about a 45-minute drive north of Honolulu International airport in Oahu, HI.
Accommodation
5-day Semi-Private Couples Retreat in Hawai'i
5 Day Semi-Private Couples Retreat - With Accommodation
Venue & Amenities
A/C in Rooms
Free Wifi
Spa
Sauna
Pool
Towels
Free Parking
Kitchen
Tour Assistance
Hot Tub
Coffee/Tea
Cafe
Restaurant
Fitness Center
Yoga Studio
Housekeeping
Bicycles For Rent
We reside on a gated, 1 acre fruit farm overlooking the ocean. Peaceful, quiet and perfect for reconnection. This is a couples retreat that deeply integrates physical and sexual intimacy. we heal the individual with integrative medicine. We prioritize healing the relationship through evidence-based relationship and sex therapy techniques.
Meals
Menu Types
Vegan
Vegetarian
Pescetarian
Ayurvedic
Includes Meat
Organic
Gluten Free
Dairy Free
Nut Free
A farm-to-table lunch is provided each day so that you may choose your perfect meal. We are a Celiac-friendly family and are respectful and considerate of allergies and intolerance.
What's Included
- About This Accommodation
- The fee for this booking does NOT include overnight accommodations, meals, or travel expenses—giving you the freedom to craft your own luxury experience while focusing entirely on connection and transformation.
- All private therapeutic workshops are held on a gated 1-acre fruit farm with stunning ocean views of the North Shore, Oahu, offering complete privacy and an intimate, serene setting. This is your sanctuary—a place to disconnect from distractions, reconnect with your partner, and fully immerse in growth and passion.
- Just a short ride away, Sunset Hills down to Sharks Cove provides access to surfing, boutique shopping, local eateries, açaí stands, and unforgettable sunsets, while nearby Haleiwa offers the perfect blend of adventure and aloha charm without the noise of the city.
- By the end of your retreat, this space will feel like your private Hawaiian haven, a place where you’ve rekindled desire, deepened intimacy, and created lasting memories together.
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- Reserve your spot now and experience your private North Shore sanctuary for transformation, connection, and passion
What's Not Included
- Overnight accommodations, Airfare, Travel, Breakfast and Dinners
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