2-Day Intergenerational Cyclebreaker Sanctuary Retreat in Da Nang, Vietnam

This is a one-of-a-kind, two-day immersion experience (in person at a private, secure sanctuary space in Da Nang, Vietnam, or online on Zoom in the safety and privacy of your own home).

This retreat is for couples who sense that the old, unspoken wounds of childhood are shaping their relationship today.

Patterns that feel automatic, invisible, or inevitable —

repeated cycles of fear, withdrawal, overwhelm, or overfunctioning —

are often rooted in implicit memories and preverbal experiences that have never had a chance to be seen, held, or healed.

Not because you are failing.

But because your body has been carrying what your mind never learned to process.

An immersive experience is the only way to do this work.

Two full days of dedicated, uninterrupted time allow your nervous systems to slow down, regulate, and finally witness the old patterns without judgment.

Here, the oldest pain meets the newest possibility —

and the body finally learns that safety, connection, and love can coexist in real time.

This series of somatic, developmental, and trauma-informed interventions catalyzes deep repair in the relational and nervous system patterns that often run your partnership unconsciously:

• Implicit memory and preverbal trauma patterns

• Survival-driven reactions in conflict

• Attachment disconnections and defensive shutdown

• Overwhelm, hypervigilance, or emotional flooding

• Repeated relational triggers and shadow loops

• Somatic tension stored across generations

• Erotic and emotional disconnection rooted in early experiences

• Communication and closeness patterns shaped by early life survival

These patterns must be met, held, and transformed for your partnership to thrive —

to allow love, trust, and safety to emerge where once there was fear.

And you already know it’s time.

Because the intimacy you long for doesn’t feel like performance.

It feels like truth in the body — a kind of connection your relationship has been waiting decades for.

This is where VESARA comes in.

This is my life’s work —

to guide couples beyond surface-level fixes, into the deep, body-based repair their love deserves.

The work you do here will ripple into every part of your lives, creating shifts that last long after the retreat ends.

Here’s What’s In Store for You Both

A one-of-a-kind, high-touch, deeply curated healing experience —

crafted specifically for couples navigating developmental and early-life trauma patterns.

No groups.

No shared attention.

Just you, your partner, and the sacred container built for your relational history.

You will receive:

• Nervous system-rooted repair for implicit and preverbal trauma

• Somatic release and recalibration of automatic survival patterns

• Developmental trauma-informed guidance to meet old wounds at the root

• Repatterning of attachment and relational loops

• Emotional and erotic reconnection that feels safe and embodied

• Experiential interventions to teach the body a new story of connection

• Soul-level partnership visioning grounded in newly regulated nervous systems

• High-touch, discreet support that honors the sacredness of your bond

You’ll leave with:

• A felt experience of safety, trust, and regulation in the body

• A deeper understanding of how your earliest experiences shape your relationship

• Tools to navigate conflict and closeness without triggering old patterns

• Renewed emotional and erotic connection

• The quiet knowing that your partnership is no longer running on outdated scripts

• And the sense that your love can finally step into the future it deserves

This work lands deeply for devoted, brilliant couples who are ready to stop surviving the echoes of childhood trauma…

and start living inside the truth of their alignment and connection.

A Few More Logistical Details

A sacred, two-day VESARA immersion hosted at a private, secure sanctuary space in Da Nang, Vietnam (preferred).

Or available via Zoom if travel is not possible.

Your experience includes:

• Two deep-dive days of immersive developmental and relational work

• Deluxe luxury one-bedroom suite for in-person retreats

• A comprehensive pre-immersion questionnaire exploring early life patterns, attachment, implicit memory, nervous system regulation, and relational history

• A welcome orientation call to prepare and ground your partnership

• High-touch care throughout, with seasonal luxury upgrades and curated surprises to enhance your experience

Because the oldest pain deserves a safe, sacred space —

and the newest possibility deserves your presence together.