3 Days Out of Time Couple-Retreat – Intimacy Beyond Words – Three Days for What Truly Matters. Germany

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Mühlenstraße 22, 27367 Sottrum, Deutschland
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Up to 3 in group
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Retreat Highlights

  • ✨ Highlights – Out of Time Couple Retreat
  • • 3-day retreat for couples in a protected, natural setting
  • • 36 hour immersion in complete darkness
  • • Space for silent presence, deep listening & gentle touch
  • • Optional 1:1 Soul Coaching Sessions (InspirAre Soul Technology)
  • • Yin Yoga & Inner Child work in a sacred dome
  • • Time to reconnect beyond roles and words
  • • Vegetarian meals – lovingly prepared and served
  • • Meals and care delivered silently during the darkness
  • • Integration time in light: journaling, walking, reflecting
  • • Closing circle to share and anchor your experience
  • • Held at Inspirare Retreat Center in Northern Germany
  • • Guided by experienced space holders Mela & Alexandre
  • • A journey back to what truly matters: love, connection, essence

About this Retreat

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The Retreat Experience

3 Days Out of Time Couple-Retreat – Intimacy Beyond Words – Three Days for What Truly Matters. Germany

Deep Connection in Darkness is a 3-day retreat for couples seeking to reconnect in an extraordinary setting: complete darkness.

Freed from visual stimulation and everyday distractions, you are invited to encounter each other anew – through presence, gentle touch, shared silence, and deep listening. Darkness is not a deprivation, but a gift: it activates your other senses and makes space for the essence of connection.

The retreat begins with individual sessions (optional) on arrival to process personal dynamics or themes. These sessions offer emotional clarity insights and open space for a new encounter. What follows is a 24-hour immersion in darkness – a protected, silent and sacred space where you share presence without pressure, where closeness and inner contact arise naturally.

Every couple has their own bed and retreat space. You have a commun bathroom. You will get 2-3 meals a day.

Encounters happen mindfully, voluntarily, and respectfully – with clear boundaries and an initiation ritual.

This retreat is not a new sexual experience, but a retreat into presence. What emerges from this space is yours: intimacy, clarity, emotion, love, deep connection and if both suits sexuality.

The retreat closes with a gentle return to the light and a closing circle to integrate the experience.

This is for you if you’ve drifted apart and wish to reconnect. If you long for intimacy beyond words. If you’re curious to meet the being behind the person you love – and allow the essence of your relationship to shine again.

A retreat for couples seeking to reconnect – not through words, roles, or visual impressions, but through presence, silence, and the essence of being.

In our everyday lives, many couples lose touch – not out of lack of love, but because of layers of routine, unspoken expectations, and emotional distance. This retreat offers a radically different space: complete darkness. A space where your senses shift inward, where outer distractions fall away, and where you can meet each other soul to soul.

💠 What to Expect

🖤 24 hours of complete darkness: You will spend an entire day and night together in a safe, structured space with no light, no visual cues, no external stimulation.
🧘 Shared silent presence: You inhabit the same space – sometimes in silence, sometimes in gentle contact – always with mutual respect.
🤲 Mindful invitations for connection: Optional impulses for shared breathing, conscious touch, or still presence are offered – free of expectation, gently and respectfully.
🛏️ Personal retreat space: Each person has their own bed and area to rest or withdraw if needed. Closeness arises naturally, not through pressure.
🌄 Ritual of return: On the final day, you slowly return to the light, with space for integration and a closing circle.
🌿 What Makes This Retreat Unique

In darkness, the essential becomes visible.
You meet your partner not through the eyes, but through presence and feeling.
Without visual judgment or distraction, a deeper intimacy becomes possible.
The body and appearance fade – and the soul comes forward.
Love becomes essential again – in both meanings: essential and essence-based.
🌀 Coaching Support: InspirAreSoulTechnology Sessions (optional and recommended)

Before entering the darkness, each partner is invited to receive a 1:1 InspirAre Soul Technology session. These individual sessions create space to explore unresolved emotional patterns that often silently affect the relationship.

The sessions are grounded in Inner Child work Familie constellation, regression, and somatic awareness. They help bring clarity to emotional burdens that we may unconsciously project onto our partner.

🪶 When both partners receive a session (one after the other), it opens the door for a deeper connection in the dark – free from old entanglements and unspoken expectations.

Benefits of the sessions:

You take responsibility for your own emotional field – and free your partner from it.
You gain insight into unconscious protection patterns, wounds, or emotional blockages.
You create an inner foundation for authentic, present-moment connection.
You restore emotional safety – which is the basis for true intimacy.
This kind of preparation allows couples to enter the darkness not as wounded children in reaction, but as aware adults – able to see, feel, and hold each other from the heart.

💞 Who Is This Retreat For?

Couples who feel emotionally distant and want to reconnect.
Partners who long for closeness beyond words and roles.
People who sense that the essence of love lies deeper than the surface.
Those who are open to silence, stillness, and subtle intimacy.
Anyone ready to explore a new, soul-based form of connection.

✅ What’s Included

3-day retreat (2 nights) in a protected space
36-hour darkness immersion for couples
Opening session, rituals & integration circle
Clear agreements for safety, boundaries, and respect
Optional: 2× InspirAre Soul Technology coaching sessions (each 90 min)
Guided by Mela and Alexandre – experienced in darkness work, Multi dimension-based healing & couple processes

For more Information Constitution us at InspirAreSoultecnology Coaching search engin or WhatsApp

Schedule

✨ Program Overview

“Out of Time” – Couples Retreat (3 Days / 2 Nights)
📍 Inspirare Retreat Center – Stuckenborstel, Germany



🕰️ Day 1 – Arrival & Opening

From 2:00 PM
• Individual arrival & check-in
• Welcome circle & introduction to the retreat space
• Quiet time for you as a couple to land and arrive

Optional: Private Sessions
• 90 minutes of InspirAre Soul Technology Coaching per person

In the evening:
• Yin Yoga & Inner Child Work in the geodesic dome
• Wholesome vegetarian dinner
• Gentle attunement to the upcoming darkness



🌑 Day 2 – The Shared Darkness
• Entry into the darkness begins the night before (Day 1 evening)
• 24 hours in complete darkness
• A space of silence, stillness, intimacy, and presence
• You live according to your own rhythm – eat, rest, touch, feel
• Meals are delivered silently to your space
• A sacred pause – beyond roles, words, or expectations

Celebrate your relationship not through doing – but through being.



🌅 Day 3 – Return & Integration
• Return to daylight in the early morning
• Nourishing breakfast
• Time for integration as a couple (walk, journaling, rest)
• Closing circle & guided conversation
• Shared lunch
• Departure around 2:00 PM



🍽️ Nourishment
• Two wholesome vegetarian meals per day
• Silent meal service during the darkness phase
• Water, tea & snacks freely available throughout
Note: Schedule is approximate and may change

Getting Here

Location icon Inspirare Retreat Center, Mühlenstraße 22, 27367 Sottrum, Deutschland

Directions

You can join us from Bremen or Hamburg

Accommodation

The apartment is fully darkened for your dark retreat, so no rays of light can penetrate. Additionally, the apartment is very well insulated with triple-glazed windows, ensuring unusual silence. Step inside and experience the perfection of sustainable living – your separate oasis of security. Thanks to modern technology, it stays pleasantly cool in summer and warm and dry in winter. The ventilation system provides fresh air, while the location ensures a quiet environment away from the hustle and bustle of everyday life.

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Retreat Price per person
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InspirAresoultechnology Coaching (4 hours)
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Additional Nights in the light Preparation and integrations

Venue & Amenities

Venue & Amenities
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Towels icon Towels
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Kitchen icon Kitchen
Tour Assistance icon Tour Assistance
Hot Tub icon Hot Tub
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Restaurant icon Restaurant
Fitness Center icon Fitness Center
Yoga Studio icon Yoga Studio
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Welcome to the ecological oasis of tranquility! The newly built small apartment, surrounded by old trees, offers a harmonious ambiance. The clay plaster and wall heating create an optimal indoor climate for relaxation and inner work. The toxin-free and artistically designed apartment meets the highest standards of building biology.
Our lodge are all big enought to spend a good time in the darkness.

Meals

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Menu Types

During the Dark Retreat, meals are carefully prepared. At lunchtime, a balanced, organic vegetarian or vegan meal rich in raw food is provided. The food is delivered to the participant. Breakfast is s

What's Included

  • What’s Included
  • 3-day retreat (2 nights) in a protected space
  • 36-hour darkness immersion for couples
  • Opening session, rituals & integration circle
  • Clear agreements for safety, boundaries, and respect
  • Optional: 2× InspirAre Soul Technology coaching sessions (each 90 min)
  • Guided by Mela and Alexandre – experienced in darkness work, Multi dimension-based healing & couple processes
  • Fully equipped room for the duration of the dark retreat
  • Absolute darkness and silence
  • Guidance from an experienced dark guide
  • Optional 24-hour emergency bell
  • Various techniques to enhance extrasensory perception
  • 5 nights accommodation
  • Carefully curated meals (self-prepared breakfast and lunch), filtered water
  • Flexible program allowing for various activities such as meditation, yoga,, and music

What's Not Included

  • Lift to Airport

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