Oaks Retreat: Couples Weekend

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Up to 30 in group
Date
November 14 - 16, 2025

About this Retreat

Details of this retreat

Price includes lodging, programming, fitness/yoga classes, contrast therapy and meals. Extra experiences (like massage or 1:1 coaching) can be added on separately after you register.

Everything on the schedule is optional. We want you to get what you need out of this weekend.

Check-in is Friday between 2:00-4:00pm. The first session is 4:30pm on Friday. We wrap up on Sunday around 10:30am, but we are about an hour outside San Diego and recommend planning some buffer time for travel and lunch so you're not rushed leaving. We also have an early-check in option if you'd like to add an extra day and come on Thursday. Then you would have 3 nights and 2 full days of full access to the property amenities, classes, and pre-retreat programming. You'll see that add-on as an option when you register.

 



 

Join us for a Couples Weekend at The Oaks and take the time to unplug, focus on each other, and strengthen your relationship. This retreat is your opportunity to prioritize your relationship, clarify your unique vision and have a ton of fun as you enjoy all the amenities and property features guests have come to love!

Price includes lodging, programming, and meals for 2 people. Extra experiences (like massage or 1:1 coaching) can be added on separately after you register.

Everything on the schedule is optional. We want you to get what you need out of this weekend.

Check-in is Friday between 2:00-4:00pm. The first session is 4:30pm on Friday. We wrap up on Sunday around 10:30am, but we are about an hour outside San Diego and recommend planning some buffer time for travel and lunch so you're not rushed leaving. However, we also have a Thursday early-check in option with a pre-retreat session included.  Then you would have 3 nights and 2 full days. You'll see that add-on as an option when you register.



Life's demands can sometimes leave relationships in need of a recharge. Even in the healthiest partnerships, work, responsibilities, and the hustle and bustle can leave little time for nurturing your relationship. What couples need are opportunities to reconnect and strengthen the foundations of their relationship. They require a safe space to address their concerns, improve communication, and work together as a team. A retreat designed for couples offers precisely that.








A couples' retreat provides a unique environment where partners can unplug from their daily routines and focus on one another. Through workshops and guided discussions, they can explore the challenges they face and develop strategies to overcome them. Trust can be rebuilt, communication enhanced, and intimacy reignited. Couples Weekend is designed to help couples align their values and goals, bringing them closer together as they envision a shared future.

In this nurturing setting, couples can rediscover the joy and passion in their relationship. By investing time and effort into their partnership, they're better equipped to navigate the complexities and the joys of life. Escape to The Oaks for a transformative Couples Weekend that offers a perfect setting to strengthen your connection with your partner and create lasting memories together.








 















Pre-Retreat Session: Reflecting on Your Relationship (included with Early Check-In)
Before the retreat, explore where you and your partner currently stand in your relationship. Set goals for growth and identify areas for improvement, ensuring you arrive with a shared understanding and clear intentions.

Optional Workshops:

Effective Communication

Learn practical tools for enhancing communication and understanding each other better.
Explore ways to navigate difficult conversations with respect and clarity.


Building Trust and Intimacy

Discover techniques for fostering trust and deepening intimacy in your relationship.
Learn how to create a safe space for vulnerability and connection.


Shared Vision and Goals

Work together to create a shared vision for your future.
Align your individual goals with your partnership to build a stronger, united front.


Nurturing Fun and Play

Participate in activities that bring joy and playfulness back into your relationship.
Strengthen your bond through shared experiences that celebrate your unique connection.











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Join us for a Couples Weekend at The Oaks and take the time to unplug, focus on each other, and strengthen your relationship. This retreat is your opportunity to prioritize your relationship, clarify your unique vision and have a ton of fun as you enjoy all the amenities and property features guests have come to love!








 

 

 

 

Getting Here

Location icon The Oaks

Directions

From HWY 78, look for the large blue and gold GOLDEN EAGLE FARM SIGN and two tall Cyprus trees on your left. The best way to know your turn is coming if you are coming from the East will be the center turn lane. Turn Left on Golden Eagle Road and stay left to follow the signs to The Oaks, approximately 1.5 miles back off the 78.

Once you arrive to The Oaks gate, continue to the top of the circle drive to unload your belongings and then promptly drive back down to the first parking lot on your left. If that parking lot is full, please continue down the end of the driveway and park in the lot on your right.

Please follow event details for specific check in procedures.
If the gate is locked, please wait in the parking lot outside the gate or call The Oaks main line.
www.OaksCenter.com

Accommodation

DOUBLE OCCUPANCY, (1) King Bed

Accommodation
This selection includes: (1) Private Bedroom/Bathroom. (1) King Bed. Great for couples desiring a King bed. 

DOUBLE OCCUPANCY (2) Queen Beds

Accommodation
This selection includes: (1) Private Bedroom. (1) King/Queen Bed. Great for couples or friends that don't mind sharing a bed.

Venue & Amenities

A/C in Rooms icon A/C in Rooms
Free Wifi icon Free Wifi
Spa icon Spa
Sauna icon Sauna
Pool icon Pool
Towels icon Towels
Free Parking icon Free Parking
Kitchen icon Kitchen
Tour Assistance icon Tour Assistance
Hot Tub icon Hot Tub
Coffee/Tea icon Coffee/Tea
Cafe icon Cafe
Restaurant icon Restaurant
Fitness Center icon Fitness Center
Yoga Studio icon Yoga Studio
Housekeeping icon Housekeeping
Bicycles For Rent icon Bicycles For Rent

Meals

Menu Types

Customer Reviews

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5.0
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Attention to Detail with all the personal touches
Wow. What a spot. The Oaks has everything you need to rest and make a memory or two. Instagram-worthy decor - imagine if Joanna Gaines remodeled a youth camp - makes this place cozy and comfortable. The staff was so friendly and kind and learned everyone's name the first day. The food was on the level of any resort you could go to. And the pool - let's just say that you HAVE to do the slide and high dive. I'd say more but let's do our best to keep this gem of southern California a secret.

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A wonderful escape to slow down and focus on one's self
I registered for a weekend retreat, and was rewarded with a place to rest, find some clarity (and tools to use for later), make connections with others, and relax. The weekend had emotionally challenging conversations and workshops, as well as time for fun. I would like to go back again, and make The Oaks part of a regular rhythm of my life. You have to show up, and make the space to do the emotional, and spiritual work. You will get out what you put into the program. The food was delicious- in a way that you were not stuffed and, never left feeling hungry, to be fueled for the day. I am sure that the menu was intentionally designed to provide you a healthy foundation for the weekend. The property is gorgeous. I often just laid under the oaks to read and reflect, and enjoyed sitting on the deck, in a rocking chair, connecting with others.

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Amazing grounds, staff and food!
Loved everything about The Oaks! The room was lovely, very clean and well furnished. I stayed in the Kendall building. The food was EXCELLENT and was able to accommodate for my gluten-free and dairy-free food options. The staff was SUPER friendly and helpful, esp with the golf carts bringing you back and forth to your car and helping with the bags. The atmosphere was very relaxed and peaceful. My favorite part was the trail riding and also the hike to the water tower to watch the sunset. Highly recommend for a solitary retreat or group retreat or any other type of retreat event!
My only advice would be to allow extra time to get there- depending on where you are driving from. I drove from the Orange County area and it took over 3 hours to get there on a Friday afternoon (left at 2pm and got there around 530pm). On the way home- late Sunday afternoon- it only took an hour and half to get back (no traffic).

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Absolutely Fantastic
This was my second time at a Flagship Retreat at The Oaks.
The property is well appointed, comfortable, and not at all cluttered.
The staff is delightful and very hospitable. I felt right at home the moment I arrived and all throughout the weekend.
The pace of the Flagship Retreat is spot on. They have truly crafted all of the right elements for a thoughtful, restful, and very fun retreat.
I'll be back!

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WOW
I just finished a Flagship Retreat with Stephanie!!! WOW and WOW again is what is on my heart. She lead from a place of peace, love, and GRACE. The weekend was exactly what I needed. From her, the crew of volunteers (Ellie, Ellie 2 (Stephanie's daughter), Rossi, Rica, Jeremy, Maggie and hub Zane, and the chef's - EVERYTHING was fantastic. I highly recommend this retreat and The Oaks for any event or meeting. Thank you!