Upgrading the Heart: Living Beyond the Egoic Operating System

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53 Mill Street, Westfield, MA, USA
Date
January 30 - February 1, 2026

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Within each of us lie two distinct “operating systems” that shape how we move through the world. Cynthia Bourgeault describes these as the Egoic Operating System—rooted in self-preservation, fear, and separation—and the Operating System of the Heart, which perceives life through connection, compassion, and wholeness.

Join Fr. Bill Sheehan for this weekend program, where we will explore the nature of these two ways of being. Together, we will examine how the egoic system naturally develops and why it often dominates our choices, as well as how the deeper intelligence of the heart offers an alternative path. Through guided reflection, teaching, and shared practice, participants will begin to recognize the subtle yet significant shifts that occur when we move from ego-centered awareness toward heart-centered perception.

The program will offer practical tools for identifying when we are caught in egoic patterns and how we can consciously “upgrade” to the spaciousness and freedom of the heart’s wisdom. Ultimately, this gathering provides both teaching and practice for those who desire to live with greater authenticity, presence, and love.

Come ready to listen deeply, practice intentionally, and discover the profound transformation that becomes possible when we choose the way of the heart.

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Location icon Genesis Spiritual Center, 53 Mill Street, Westfield, MA, USA

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Genesis Spiritual Center is a beautiful place. It is always such a joy to visit. Come to the Table is a great conference, always uplifting and inspiring. I loved everything about it!

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Come to the Table: A Day on the Holy Spirit
Val and Michelle did a wonderful job on creating content that was thought-provoking, enlightening and stimulating. To be in an environment as serene and welcoming as Genesis as the backdrop for this wonderful women’s retreat was truly special. I walked away feeling full of wisdom and hope. I would recommend this retreat to other women and will definitely be back!

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Sacred Earth, Sacred Soul
Thoughtful time. Thank you

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Sacred soul…beautiful connections!
The participants in large group carried such authentic, warm energy and our small group felt even warmer. I want to be neighbors to each and all. Cami was her usual honoring, deep-souled self. I will participate again as soon as one is scheduled.

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Inspiring
My familiarity with Hadewijch has been greatly expanded by Mark's diligence, compassion, and teaching. As with other presentations I've attended, I have edn given the gift of a deeper awareness of the mysticism inhabiting the Midfle Ages. Learning of the 'linkage' between Hadewijch and Meister Eckhart is inviting, inspiring

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