Upgrading the Heart: Living Beyond the Egoic Operating System

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53 Mill Street, Westfield, MA, USA
Date
January 30 - February 1, 2026

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Within each of us lie two distinct “operating systems” that shape how we move through the world. Cynthia Bourgeault describes these as the Egoic Operating System—rooted in self-preservation, fear, and separation—and the Operating System of the Heart, which perceives life through connection, compassion, and wholeness.

Join Fr. Bill Sheehan for this weekend program, where we will explore the nature of these two ways of being. Together, we will examine how the egoic system naturally develops and why it often dominates our choices, as well as how the deeper intelligence of the heart offers an alternative path. Through guided reflection, teaching, and shared practice, participants will begin to recognize the subtle yet significant shifts that occur when we move from ego-centered awareness toward heart-centered perception.

The program will offer practical tools for identifying when we are caught in egoic patterns and how we can consciously “upgrade” to the spaciousness and freedom of the heart’s wisdom. Ultimately, this gathering provides both teaching and practice for those who desire to live with greater authenticity, presence, and love.

Come ready to listen deeply, practice intentionally, and discover the profound transformation that becomes possible when we choose the way of the heart.

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Location icon Genesis Spiritual Center, 53 Mill Street, Westfield, MA, USA

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Spiritual Oasis
From the moment you enter the property you feel right at home. The grounds are amazing, accommodations are spotless and the food so nourishing that your spirit is guaranteed to be revived. Betty, as always, brings a fresh perspective and solutions to making everyday living a more pleasurable and spiritual experience.

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Embracing the Journey: A Women's Retreat on the Spiritual & Psychological Dimensions of Aging
I thoroughly enjoyed and retreat itself. The Presenter, Betty Hill Crowson, was well prepared and knowledgeable about the topic. She presented the topic clearly and provided opportunities for attendees to participate in exercises in order to experience aspects of the subject matter directly. Ms. Crowson was accessible and readily answered any questions.

Room accommodations were clean and comfortable and the food was excellent. All
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BioSpiritual Focusing: Day of Presence
Lovely group. The facilitators were transitioning, so it was a little disorganized, but the subject matter was delivered thoughtfully and clearly.

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Blessing of the animals
A beautiful ceremony and blessing for our pets on the feast of Saint Francis. Genesis Spiritual Center has a peaceful and inviting space to spend time appreciating nature and the many gifts God’s creation gives us each day. I appreciated the time and blessing given to my pet during this event.

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Sister Miriam Therese Callnan, RSM
Aside from the content of one’s retreat, enjoying the beauty of the grounds and property is a blessing. Thank you for offering such a respite!

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