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Cultivating the Joy of Intimacy & Connection

4.888 reviews
Location icon
375 Panterkill Road PO Box 70 Phoenicia, NY 12464 United States
Date
Apr 23 - 26, 2026

About this Retreat

Details of this retreat

A Ketamine-Assisted Retreat for Couples
This retreat offers a safe, structured environment where couples can deeply celebrate the nuances of their relationship, including aspects of joy and intimacy. Participants will learn to understand each other’s needs and navigate challenges collaboratively. The retreat emphasizes cultivating an intimate bond through what we refer to as noble communication—clear and compassionate exchanges that lay the foundation for healthy relationships. By developing these communication skills, couples can enhance their connection, leading to greater joy and a deeper sense of unity.
Ketamine is utilized here as a tool to explore profound existential realms, facilitating open and loving communication. Joy, seen as a core aspect of our being, when unblocked, enhances not only our intimacy but also our overall health and happiness. Ketamine-assisted sessions are designed to open mental, emotional, and physical channels, allowing participants to connect with these aspects in a clear, insightful, and accepting way. The retreat also integrates mindfulness and meditation, crucial for regulating emotions and thoughts and fostering the ability to face each moment with balance and grace.
The program is designed to deepen personal and interpersonal connections within a group setting. Structured, meaningful conversations and guided practices help explore relationship and intimacy in this nurturing environment. No prior experience with psychedelic medicines or ketamine is required, and all participants begin with a screening call to ensure the retreat is a suitable fit. The combination of ketamine with mindfulness and meditation offers a profound journey into a more conscious and purposeful life. These practices aim to reconnect participants with themselves, enhancing safety, resilience, and vitality in their lives. With an innate capacity for presence, compassion, and recognition of joy's healing power, the retreat emphasizes safety and preparedness for all participants to engage meaningfully with the group and the experiences offered.

Please note: This retreat is by application only and is not a short-term residential treatment and is unsuitable for anyone experiencing an acute mental health crisis or those with severe, persistent psychiatric conditions. This retreat is not meant as mediation for those considering a breakup or divorce.







Schedule:

Thursday, April 23

Optional early arrival to schedule spa treatment
4 - 6 pm Check-in starts
6 - 7 pm Dinner
7- 9 pm Evening Program

Friday, April 24

7:15 - 8 am Meditation and Yoga (optional)
8 - 9:30 am  Check-in & Opening program *no breakfast
9:30 -10 am Meeting the medicine
10 am - 12:30 pm Ketamine Session
12:30 - 1 pm Lunch
1 - 3 pm BREAK (book a massage or spa treatment!)
3:30 - 5:30 PM Afternoon program
6 - 7 pm Dinner.
7 -9 pm Evening Workshop
9 - 10 pm Bonfire (weather permitting)

Saturday, April 25

7:15 -8:30 am Meditation and Yoga (optional).
8:30 - 10 am Morning Program - *no breakfast.
10 am  - 12:30 pm Ketamine Session
12:30 - 1:30 pm Lunch.
1:30 - 3:30 pm BREAK (book a massage or spa treatment!).
3:30 - 5:30 pm Afternoon program
6 - 7 pm Dinner
7 - 9 pm Evening workshop
9 - 10 pm Night activity

Sunday, April 26

7:15 -8 am Meditation and Yoga (optional).
8 - 9 am *Check out of rooms before program starts
9 - 11 am Ketamine Session (optional)
11 am - 12:30 pm Group Process
12:30 - 1:30 pm Lunch
2 pm Group Activity
3 pm End of program

*Please note that this schedule is subject to change at any time.

Getting Here

Location icon Menla, 375 Panterkill Road PO Box 70 Phoenicia, NY 12464 United States

Accommodation

Deluxe King

Accommodation
Deluxe King Room with King Bed and Private Bathroom Free Phone and Hi-Speed Wifi Internet Access Available Air Conditioning This Space is not ADA compliant. Deluxe King Rooms are Available only in Kathmandu House * Please note that rates include meals and accommodations

Deluxe Queen

Accommodation
Deluxe Queen Room with Queen Bed and Private Bathroom Free Phone and Hi-Speed Wifi Internet Access Available Air Conditioning All Rooms in Lhasa are Handicap-Accessible, Including Four Rooms with Wheelchair Accessible Showers. Deluxe Queen Rooms are Available in Lhasa Inn and Kathmandu House * Please note that rates include meals and accommodations

Customer Reviews

4.88 out of 5.0 average rating

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Amazing!
What a tender, clean, wonderful space. One can feel the thoughtfulness and contemplative consideration given to each and every detail. The room felt that it was always mine, like I was coming home to a place I've known well, in that it felt so welcoming and open. Beautiful!

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awesome in all ways
Beautiful location, extraordinary staff, teachers, spa healers, food--accommodations lovely.

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Exactly what I needed in this retreat….
My retreat was wonderful. It had everything I was looking for and more. A weekend of yoga, meditation, hiking, and some nice connections with people. Roseanne was wonderful. I would happily do another retreat with her in the future.

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The Reconnection Retreat; Nuturing the soul through the 5 elements of nature
As the retreat leader of this particular retreat I want to express how Divine the setting was. There is a natural levity on the property that can’t be explained , only felt.

All of the thoughtful spaces were just so amazing to hold presence for those magical “ Menla moments” that seem to organically occur there.

The staff is beyond accommodating. The food delighted the senses and nourished our bodies. The housing accommodations felt warm and welcoming like a sweet embrace that lingers in the memories.

I still find my face with a random smile through the days after as my thoughts drift back again and agin to the place called Menla.

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Invaluable retreat
In the beautiful valley of Menla, Dr James supports learning such profound inner yogas that are honestly priceless. His depth of experience and ability to speak to it is profound and impactful. Every time I’ve learned and trained with James I come off feeling continued inner conviction and confidence. Especially in approaching and navigating the space of difficult emotions. I will continue to train and attend retreats when I can.

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