The Art of Safe Connection 💕 Somatic Tantra Retreat for Feeling Safe in Your Body While Opening to Others
The Art of Safe Connection 💕 Somatic Tantra Retreat for Feeling Safe in Your Body While Opening to Others
Ubud, Gianyar Regency, Bali, Indonesia
Up to 30 in group
January 23 - 25, 2026
Retreat Highlights
- 💗 This Retreat Is For You If You Want To...
- Feel at home in your body instead of stuck in your head.
- Release stress, anxiety, and emotional tension.
- Rebuild trust in yourself and others after heartbreak or burnout.
- Experience safe, conscious touch and learn clear boundaries.
- Let go of the need to "get it right" and learn to simply be.
- Meet people who value honesty, presence, and depth.
- Cultivate self-love, confidence, and emotional balance that lasts beyond the weekend.
- 🕊 What You’ll Experience
- Tantric Meditations for opening the heart and cultivating presence.
- SOMA® Breathwork Journeys to reset your nervous system and awaken vitality.
- Somatic Awareness Practices to reconnect with body wisdom and dissolve stored stress.
- Conscious Touch Exercises (consent-based) for connection and trust.
- Sharing Circles & Integration to reflect, connect, and feel supported in community.
- Restorative Movement & Sound to close each day in peace.
- Everything is guided step by step. You always choose your level of participation.
- 🌸 What You’ll Take Home
- A calmer nervous system and practical tools to manage stress and overthinking.
- A renewed connection to your body, emotions, and breath.
- The ability to communicate and set boundaries from truth and self-respect.
- A sense of belonging and deeper trust in relationships.
- The quiet confidence that comes from self-love and inner balance.
About this Retreat
Ritam
Tantra teacher · Massage alchemist · Founder of Portal to Joy
I walked out of a fifteen-year tech career when I realised joy can be engineered, not chased. Product-design logic met ancient Tantra and everything clicked. Since 2014 I have studied intensively with world-renowned master Ma Ananda Sarita, absorbing the chakra system, Vigyan Bhairav meditations and neo-Tantric ritual. More than three hundred students have since joined my retreats, workshops and private immersions in Europe and Bali.
What I offer
Three-hour Tantric massage sessions – a devotional reset of nervous system, boundaries and pleasure pathways.
VIP Immersions for Women – three days of curated ritual, breath, movement and nourishing touch designed to awaken radiant feminine essence.
Born for Bliss & other 3-day retreats – gender-balanced journeys that turn overwhelm into embodied presence through movement, conscious touch and clear consent drills.
Online mini-meditations and classes – twenty-minute practices that move energy for days.
Why work with me
Fifteen years in digital product sharpened my analytical eye; your transformation is mapped like a design sprint.
Authentic lineage: trained directly with Sarita and certified by Tantra Essence School.
Massage craft integrates fascia release, energy flow and meditation, creating deep yet safe sensual healing.
Client-centred ethos: every practice is consent-based, trauma-aware and adaptable to your pace.
Mission
Prove that happiness is a learnable skill and give people the tools to practise daily.
Connect
Telegram https://t.me/ritamtantra
Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ritam.tantra/
For years, I lived in self-abandonment. I worked myself to exhaustion, gave endlessly, and mistook anxiety for love. On the outside, I looked accomplished, yet inside I was disconnected from my body and afraid to be truly seen.
I am a transformational coach, breathwork therapist, SOMA® Breath facilitator, and somatic healing practitioner devoted to helping people reconnect with the most important relationship they will ever have - the one with themselves.
My turning point came when I realised that intimacy does not begin with another person - it begins within. Through breathwork, nervous system awareness, and somatic healing, I came home to my body. I discovered that love without peace is not love, that boundaries are devotion to self, and that safety is the soil where desire and trust can finally grow.
Today, my work supports people in feeling safe in their bodies so they can open to real connection - with themselves, with others, and with life. I combine scientific understanding of the nervous system with embodied, heart-centered presence to help people move beyond fear, overthinking, and emotional numbness into authenticity and love. My approach creates a grounded, safe space where emotions can move and connection can deepen naturally.
In private sessions, I work with women through The Rewild Woman program - a journey of self-intimacy and embodied power. It helps women stop abandoning themselves, reclaim their pleasure, and choose relationships that feel like freedom, not survival.
Because when a woman stops abandoning herself, she doesn’t just experience intimacy. She becomes it - with herself, with life, and with love.
Details of this retreat
Do you long for connection, yet notice tension, anxiety, or overthinking when you are actually with others?
Many of us want intimacy, presence, and real connection, but our nervous system stays on guard. We smile, perform, or withdraw, while something deeper longs to relax and feel safe.
👇👇👇 The Art of Safe Connection is a three-day Somatic Tantra Retreat created to help you reconnect with your body, calm your nervous system, and experience connection that feels grounded, respectful, and real.
This retreat is not about pushing boundaries or forcing vulnerability. It is about learning how connection feels when your body knows it is safe.
What Makes This Retreat Unique
This retreat combines Somatic Tantra with SOMA® Breathwork, offering both relational and nervous system support.
Somatic Tantra helps you develop body awareness, self-trust, clear boundaries, and authentic communication in connection with others.
SOMA® Breathwork works directly with the nervous system, supporting stress regulation, emotional release, and a return to calm presence.
Together, these approaches help connection shift from something you try to do into something you can feel naturally.
All practices are guided step by step, with consent, choice, and pacing at the center.
You may experience:
- Gentle somatic and tantric meditations
- SOMA® Breathwork journeys for nervous system regulation
- Body awareness and embodied movement practices
- Consent-based relational and touch explorations
- Sharing circles and integration time
- Restorative movement and sound to close each day
There is no requirement to share.
There is no requirement to touch.
Listening to your body is the practice.
This Retreat Is For You If
🤍 You want to feel more at ease in your body
🤍 You experience social anxiety, overthinking, or emotional guarding
🤍 You long for connection but need safety first
🤍 You are curious about Tantra in a grounded, respectful way
🤍 You value consent, clarity, and emotional maturity
🤍 You want tools you can use in everyday life
This Retreat Is Not For You If
❌ To create a safe and aligned group, we name this clearly.
❌ You are looking for intense cathartic or confrontational experiences
❌ You expect sexual performance or explicit practices
❌ You want to be pushed beyond your limits
❌ You are unwilling to respect boundaries, yours or others’
Participants often leave with:
✅ A calmer, more regulated nervous system
✅ Greater trust in their body and its signals
✅ Clearer boundaries and more confident communication
✅ Less anxiety in social and intimate situations
✅ Simple practices to return to safety and presence
✅ A deeper sense of connection with self and others
This is not a peak experience.
It is a foundation you can live from.
Facilitators
Ritam
Tantra teacher and somatic facilitator guiding people from disconnection and overwhelm into presence, trust, and embodied connection. His work is rooted in the Tantra Essence lineage and grounded in consent, clarity, and emotional safety.
Charlotte
Transformational coach, SOMA® Breath facilitator, and somatic practitioner supporting people in calming their nervous system and reconnecting with their body so intimacy and connection can grow naturally.
Together, we create a space that is safe, grounded, and deeply human.
Practical Information
📍 Location: Ubud, Bali (exact venue shared after registration)
📅 Dates: January 23–25, 2025
⏰ Schedule: Approximately 10:00–18:00 daily
👥 Group Size: Limited for safety and depth
Accommodation and meals are not included unless stated otherwise.
Join Us
If your body feels a quiet yes while reading this, trust it.
You do not need to be ready.
You do not need to be fixed.
You are welcome exactly as you are 🤍
Many of us want intimacy, presence, and real connection, but our nervous system stays on guard. We smile, perform, or withdraw, while something deeper longs to relax and feel safe.
👇👇👇 The Art of Safe Connection is a three-day Somatic Tantra Retreat created to help you reconnect with your body, calm your nervous system, and experience connection that feels grounded, respectful, and real.
This retreat is not about pushing boundaries or forcing vulnerability. It is about learning how connection feels when your body knows it is safe.
What Makes This Retreat Unique
This retreat combines Somatic Tantra with SOMA® Breathwork, offering both relational and nervous system support.
Somatic Tantra helps you develop body awareness, self-trust, clear boundaries, and authentic communication in connection with others.
SOMA® Breathwork works directly with the nervous system, supporting stress regulation, emotional release, and a return to calm presence.
Together, these approaches help connection shift from something you try to do into something you can feel naturally.
All practices are guided step by step, with consent, choice, and pacing at the center.
You may experience:
- Gentle somatic and tantric meditations
- SOMA® Breathwork journeys for nervous system regulation
- Body awareness and embodied movement practices
- Consent-based relational and touch explorations
- Sharing circles and integration time
- Restorative movement and sound to close each day
There is no requirement to share.
There is no requirement to touch.
Listening to your body is the practice.
This Retreat Is For You If
🤍 You want to feel more at ease in your body
🤍 You experience social anxiety, overthinking, or emotional guarding
🤍 You long for connection but need safety first
🤍 You are curious about Tantra in a grounded, respectful way
🤍 You value consent, clarity, and emotional maturity
🤍 You want tools you can use in everyday life
This Retreat Is Not For You If
❌ To create a safe and aligned group, we name this clearly.
❌ You are looking for intense cathartic or confrontational experiences
❌ You expect sexual performance or explicit practices
❌ You want to be pushed beyond your limits
❌ You are unwilling to respect boundaries, yours or others’
Participants often leave with:
✅ A calmer, more regulated nervous system
✅ Greater trust in their body and its signals
✅ Clearer boundaries and more confident communication
✅ Less anxiety in social and intimate situations
✅ Simple practices to return to safety and presence
✅ A deeper sense of connection with self and others
This is not a peak experience.
It is a foundation you can live from.
Facilitators
Ritam
Tantra teacher and somatic facilitator guiding people from disconnection and overwhelm into presence, trust, and embodied connection. His work is rooted in the Tantra Essence lineage and grounded in consent, clarity, and emotional safety.
Charlotte
Transformational coach, SOMA® Breath facilitator, and somatic practitioner supporting people in calming their nervous system and reconnecting with their body so intimacy and connection can grow naturally.
Together, we create a space that is safe, grounded, and deeply human.
Practical Information
📍 Location: Ubud, Bali (exact venue shared after registration)
📅 Dates: January 23–25, 2025
⏰ Schedule: Approximately 10:00–18:00 daily
👥 Group Size: Limited for safety and depth
Accommodation and meals are not included unless stated otherwise.
Join Us
If your body feels a quiet yes while reading this, trust it.
You do not need to be ready.
You do not need to be fixed.
You are welcome exactly as you are 🤍
Schedule
10:00 Morning Session
13:00 Lunch
14:30 Evening Session
18:00 End of day
13:00 Lunch
14:30 Evening Session
18:00 End of day
Note: Schedule is approximate and may change
Getting Here
Portal to Joy, Ubud, Gianyar Regency, Bali, Indonesia
Directions
We will send you detailed instruction in the welcome email.
Accommodation
Early Bird
Regular
Last Minute
Venue & Amenities
A/C in Rooms
Free Wifi
Spa
Sauna
Pool
Towels
Free Parking
Kitchen
Tour Assistance
Hot Tub
Coffee/Tea
Cafe
Restaurant
Fitness Center
Yoga Studio
Housekeeping
Bicycles For Rent
Tucked away among rice fields and coconut trees, this eco-friendly haven offers the perfect blend of simplicity, comfort, and connection with nature. Here, mornings begin with birdsong, sunlight filters gently through bamboo and wood, and every corner invites you to slow down and breathe.
It’s a space where you can rest, recharge, and feel the quiet rhythm of Bali’s heart.
It’s a space where you can rest, recharge, and feel the quiet rhythm of Bali’s heart.
Meals
Menu Types
Vegan
Vegetarian
Pescetarian
Ayurvedic
Includes Meat
Organic
Gluten Free
Dairy Free
Nut Free
What's Included
- Full 3-day curriculum with two certified teachers
- Vegetarian Lunch on retreat days
- All guided sessions: breath, movement, ritual & meditation
- Morning tea/coffee and healthy snack breaks each day
- Practice details for one at-home meditation
- Gender-balanced group size for safety and depth
- Yoga mats, cushions and all practice materials on site
- Telegram support for logistical questions before the retreat
- Private Telegram / Instagram channel to “Ask a Private Question” anytime
What's Not Included
- Optional accommodation
- Flights or airport transfers
- Travel / health insurance
- Personal 1-to-1 massage or coaching sessions outside retreat hours
- Additional excursions or sightseeing
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