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Chöd Healing Retreat: The Fierce Feminine Heart of Tibetan Buddhism

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375 Panterkill Road PO Box 70 Phoenicia, NY 12464 United States
Date
February 27 - March 1, 2026

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Transforming Poison into Wisdom with the Dakini Mandala

Chöd is an ancient Buddhist practice that creates a sacred container for deep healing and awakening. Rooted in the fierce and nurturing wisdom of the feminine, it invites us to find true refuge within ourselves. Through ritual, meditation, and visualization, practitioners learn to turn toward—rather than away from—fear, grief, and other unwanted experiences. This radical act of compassion transforms pain at its roots, allowing the energies of suffering to become the fertile ground for love, clarity, and liberation.

Often described as one of the crown jewels of Vajrayana Buddhism, Chöd has been revered across all four Tibetan lineages for centuries. Traditionally transmitted only after years of practice, Chöd is now being offered more publicly as a medicine for our collective time of instability and fragmentation. The practice calls on the great mother archetype of Tibetan Buddhism—the embodiment of fearless wisdom and unconditional care—to guide practitioners in cutting through the roots of ego-clinging and restoring wholeness. In this retreat, Sunisa and Sue will skillfully guide participants through Chöd practice and ceremony, providing both traditional context and embodied instruction.

This retreat is open to experienced meditators and spiritual practitioners who feel called to work at the intersection of healing and awakening. It may be especially supportive for those who feel stagnant in their practice, survivors of trauma seeking embodied release, and anyone drawn to ceremonies that transform personal and collective pain into wisdom and compassion. While there are no formal prerequisites, participants should have some familiarity with silent sitting and mindfulness practice, as the retreat includes sustained periods of meditation and visualization.

The “Haunted Ground” of the retreat’s title refers to the personal and collective spaces where we get stuck in fear, rage, shame, and grief. In Tibet, Chöd was often practiced in charnel grounds—places associated with death and decay—so that practitioners could meet their deepest aversions with presence and love. In this same spirit, our retreat invites participants to enter the haunted ground of their own hearts with courage and tenderness. For those wishing to prepare, we recommend Anam Thubten’s Into the Haunted Ground: A Guide to Cutting the Root of Suffering, a beautifully accessible introduction to the essence of Chöd.



Schedule:

Friday, February 27

9:30 - 12:30 am Arrival and Check In 
12:30 - 1:30 pm Lunch
2 - 4 pm Welcome Program
4 - 4:15 pm Break
4:15 - 5 pm Afternoon Program
5 - 6 pm Free Time
6 - 7 pm Dinner
7 - 9 pm Evening Program

Saturday, February 28

7 - 8 am Early Morning Program 
8 - 9 am Breakfast
9:30 am - 12 pm Morning Program
12:30 - 1:30 pm Lunch
2 - 5:30 pm Afternoon Program 
1:30 - 3:30 pm Break and then 3:30-5:30 Program
6 - 7 pm Dinner
7:30 - 9 pm Evening Program

Sunday, March 1

7 - 11 am Check-out of Rooms
7 - 8 am Early Morning Program
8 - 9 am Breakfast 
9:30 am - 12 pm Morning Program
12:30 - 1:30 pm Lunch & Departure

*Please note that this schedule is subject to change.

Getting Here

Location icon Menla, 375 Panterkill Road PO Box 70 Phoenicia, NY 12464 United States

Accommodation

Economy Premium Single - Shared Bath

Accommodation
Standard Premium Single Room with a Queen or Full Bed and Shared Bathroom Up to 10 guests share two large bathrooms. Each bathroom has two shower stalls and two toilets. A phone is not available but high-speed WiFi is available in the room Phone Access Available in Upper Level Of Conference Center. All calls are free of charge This Lodging Type is not ADA Compliant. * Please note rates include meals and accommodations.

Economy Single - Shared Bath

Accommodation
Standard Single Room with a Twin Bed and Shared Bathroom Bathroom is Shared with One to Six Other Guests on Your Floor. A phone is not available but high-speed WiFi is available in the room Phone Access Available in Nearby Conference Center and also Lhasa in Business Center. All calls are free of charge. This Lodging Type is not ADA Compliant. * Please note rates include meals and accommodations.

Economy Double - Shared Bath (Shared Room)

Accommodation
Standard Double with Twin Beds and Shared Bathroom The bathroom is Shared with other rooms on the same floor. High-speed Wi-Fi is available in the room. Phone Access Available in Nearby Conference Center and also Lhasa in Business Center. All calls are free of charge. This Lodging Type is not ADA Compliant. * Please note that rates include meals and accommodations * Please note: this is an open door policy room, meaning there are no keys to lock the door (we have lockers you can use at Lhasa if needed) * This booking is for one bed in a double shared room: We May Assign You Roommates if You Do Not Register with others

Economy Quad - Shared Bath (Shared Room)

Accommodation
Standard Quad Room with Quad Twin Beds and Shared Bathroom Accommodations Fee Includes All Meals. High speed Wi-Fi is available in the room. Phone Access Available in Nearby Conference Center and also Lhasa in Business Center. All calls are free of charge. This Lodging Type is not ADA Compliant. * Please note that rates include meals and accommodations * Please note: this is an open door policy room, meaning there are no keys to lock the door (we have lockers you can use at Lhasa if needed) * This booking is for one bed in a quad shared room: We May Assign You Roommates if You Do Not Register with others.

Customer Reviews

4.88 out of 5.0 average rating

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Amazing!
What a tender, clean, wonderful space. One can feel the thoughtfulness and contemplative consideration given to each and every detail. The room felt that it was always mine, like I was coming home to a place I've known well, in that it felt so welcoming and open. Beautiful!

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awesome in all ways
Beautiful location, extraordinary staff, teachers, spa healers, food--accommodations lovely.

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Exactly what I needed in this retreat….
My retreat was wonderful. It had everything I was looking for and more. A weekend of yoga, meditation, hiking, and some nice connections with people. Roseanne was wonderful. I would happily do another retreat with her in the future.

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The Reconnection Retreat; Nuturing the soul through the 5 elements of nature
As the retreat leader of this particular retreat I want to express how Divine the setting was. There is a natural levity on the property that can’t be explained , only felt.

All of the thoughtful spaces were just so amazing to hold presence for those magical “ Menla moments” that seem to organically occur there.

The staff is beyond accommodating. The food delighted the senses and nourished our bodies. The housing accommodations felt warm and welcoming like a sweet embrace that lingers in the memories.

I still find my face with a random smile through the days after as my thoughts drift back again and agin to the place called Menla.

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Invaluable retreat
In the beautiful valley of Menla, Dr James supports learning such profound inner yogas that are honestly priceless. His depth of experience and ability to speak to it is profound and impactful. Every time I’ve learned and trained with James I come off feeling continued inner conviction and confidence. Especially in approaching and navigating the space of difficult emotions. I will continue to train and attend retreats when I can.

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