Imiloa Institute, Costa Rica
Up to 20 in group
Dec 11 - 18, 2025
About this Retreat
Barbara Collier has been guiding individuals, families, children, and communities toward trauma recovery and self-discovery for more than 30 years. She brings an expansive perspective informed by her work as an intensive care nurse, somatic trauma psychotherapist, certified Somatic Experiencing® (SE™) Practitioner, and certified Embodied Psychosexual Practitioner (EPSP™). With her compassionate and integrative approach, Barbara addresses the complexities of developmental, intergenerational, sexual, and social/historical trauma. Barbara’s expertise includes integrative touch and movement therapies wherein she supports humans alongside the wisdom of horses and nature with a focus on complex physical health conditions, developmental trauma, and chronic pain.
Jameelah is an Integrative Somatic Specialist, a multi-certified Energy worker specializing in Kundalini Activation, Sat Nam Rasayan and Transcendental Meditation. She has sat with Aboriginal energy workers from West African Yoruba culture, and Traditional Ngangkari Healers.
Jameelah holds certifications in healing Intergenerational and Racial Trauma through Therapeutic & Ecstatic Breathwork; her background also includes extensive training in Mindfulness and Shamonic Meditations. She’s received her certification in Integrative Somatic Trauma Therapy Training and trained directly with Deb Dana in Polyvagal Theory - helping her clients transmute heavy emotions.
Jameelah is one of a few hundred people in the world to become a certified Kundalini Activation facilitator. She was taught to transmit raw kundalini life force energy directly from Venant Wong, the creator of KAP (Kundalini Activation Process).
Along with kundalini life force, Jameelah also transmits the most native state of non-dual awareness which cultivates a deep experience of oneness with all things. Jameelah's unique background in the Performing Arts, Sat Nam Rasayan, Breathwork, Trauma Healing, and West African Yoruba Spirituality - blends to create a powerful alchemy of grounding and healing energy - this connects her clients to their innate divinity, inner wisdom, and profound intuition.
Instagram : @JameelahCreates
Dr. Saida Désilets wants to live in a world filled with audacious, sexually sovereign people living life on their own terms. As a TEDx speaker, researcher, counter-culture creatrix, body philosopher, and author, her work has touched the lives of millions globally. Dr. Saida's innovative approach to PsychoSexuality, desire, and pleasure invites both the public and professionals to better understand the importance of accessing their erotic genius. Her medically endorsed method integrates somatic awareness, neural and cellular re-patterning, and robust reframes of sensuality and sex, which all work in harmony to support the erotic individuation process. This work is an essential part of a medical protocol to transform sexual dysfunction with penetration and support sexual optimization, as well as part of the BrainTap and other Apps. When not researching or creating transformational programs, Dr. Saida enjoys leading Wilderness Safaris in South Africa and swimming in the Aegean Sea.
Aaron Michael, author of Optimal Sex Life, creator of Bedroom Masterclass, and the “World’s Leading Relationship, Intimacy, and Sexual Wellness Coach - Optimizing Sexual Health Beyond Dysfunction.” He is your coach’s coach and has dedicated himself to helping others discover, explore, and integrate their sexual sovereignty by providing a pragmatic, pleasure-based, adult, sex-positive sex education.
With over 5,000 hours of sexological bodywork, his work has influenced over 100,000 people and two venture-funded startups. Aaron has created multiple online courses, from 9 Naughty Nights to YEAHFAP to Awakening The Sensual Woman, which support individuals in giving and receiving ecstatic pleasure as well as enhancing their mental and physical arousal.
Aaron is sought out for his innovative approach to resolving issues such as genital pain, anorgasmia, premature ejaculation, penetration anxiety, mismatched arousal, and mental arousal. His method is at the core of scientifically proven and doctor-approved medical protocols for transforming sexual dysfunction, biohacking, and optimization.
He has an MA in Cognitive Semiotics, where he specialized in adult romantic attachment, courtship, and how the brain interprets love. With over 20 years of experience as an embodiment coach in the fields of dating, relationships, and sex, he crafts bespoke embodiment programs to meet the specific needs and goals of you and your loved ones.
Melissa Stager, the owner of Healing Informed Somatic Education (HISE), has been managing and developing programs for Dr Peter A Levine and the Ergos Institute of Somatic Education since January 2015. She has completed training in Somatic Experiencing® (SE™) and NeuroEffective Touch, with additional training in Relational Bodywork and Somatic Education™ (BASE™).
Melissa has a passion for helping others heal traumatic impact symptoms somatically. Prior to this work, she had an extensive career in curatorial arts and holds a Bachelor of Arts in Applied Arts and Sciences and an EMBA in Business and Technology. Her art, including mixed media sculpture, focused on patterns and childhood trauma narratives. Somatic Experiencing has provided Melissa the opportunity to develop understanding, ease, and empathy while processing her own attachment, generational, and developmental trauma and the effects it had on her body, mind, and spirit.
Her dedication to somatic-based trauma healing provides participants and educators with the foundation required for personal exploration and growth. She also volunteers for a special needs equine therapy program and is a full-time foster mom residing in Vista, California, USA.
Details of this retreat
Yes! To Life Retreat
Embodying Your Vitality, Joy, and Wholeness
Join instructors Dr. Saida Desilets, Aaron Michael, and Barbara Collier
for an immersive awakening at Imiloa Institute in Costa Rica.
✨ Support Practices with Jameelah Creates ✨
December 11th - 18th, 2025
Imiloa Institute, Costa Rica
Reserve your spot now
Space is limited
This is not about intimacy with others. It’s about restoring the inner connection that makes authentic relationship possible.
Yes! To Life is a journey of profound self-discovery, empowerment, and liberation.
It’s common to take time before saying yes. In fact, most people decide to join a healing retreat within the last six weeks. It’s not hesitation — it’s part of the process of preparing for real change.
Are you feeling anxious, frozen, or disheartened in life?
In uncertain times, it’s easy to lose touch with your body, boundaries, and future desires. The Yes! To Life Retreat offers a safe, supportive space to reconnect with your sense of wholeness—and move from fear and stuckness into embodied joy.
At this retreat, discover how to make your truth and personal power sources of strength and peace. Joining in person is your chance to prioritize yourself, release what no longer serves you, and return to life with clarity, choice, and grounded energy.
Even when the world feels unstable, caring for yourself is the most fulfilling investment you can make. Break free from fear, uncertainty, and scarcity—learn to live from your own yes, no, and maybe.
Co-taught by Dr Levine’s trusted colleague Barbara Collier, along with experts Dr. Saida Desilets and Aaron Michael, this retreat brings together a skilled, compassionate team to guide you through the experience.
Through grounded presence, movement, breath, and attuned practices, we will begin to re-inhabit the self—not as a performance, not for anyone else— but as a sovereign being in relationship with their own aliveness. This is the foundation for embodied wholeness: a kind of inner alignment where truth, pacing, and choice are not just concepts, but felt realities within the body. Together, in a respectful and boundaried space, we create conditions for healing—not through intensity, but through safety. Not through catharsis, but through attunement. Here, we honor each person’s unique rhythm, history, and capacity. This is not about intimacy with others. It is about restoring the inner connection that makes authentic relationship possible.
During this retreat, nestled in the breathtaking beauty of Costa Rica, you will explore:
Self-regulation & safety in the body
Recognizing and honoring your body's yes, no, and maybe
Releasing shame
Consent & boundaries
Presence & attunement
Trust & thriving
Solo attunement & enlivenment
Healthy, playful partner dynamics
Cultivating sexual sovereignty, honoring wholeness:
Sexual sovereignty is not something we acquire – it’s something we remember. A return to the quiet pulse of aliveness within. To the body as a wise, sensing being—not an object to be shaped, judged, or performed. This work is not about sexual expression or erotic touch with others. It is about listening—deeply, slowly—to what lives inside. To the subtle rhythms of desire, the boundaries shaped by lived experience, the body’s own timing, intelligence, and need for safety. We unlearn the patterns that taught us to override ourselves. We disentangle from the cultural and familial scripts that told us how to feel, what to want, or who to be.
This retreat is not just about individual freedom;
it’s about cultivating a deep and respectful relationship with ourselves in a way that honors our bodies, desires, and boundaries. It is an invitation to step into an embodied, attuned connection with ourselves—one that embraces presence, consent, and the art of titration, allowing for healing, transformation, and the unlearning of inherited narratives that may have shaped our relationship with sexuality and our bodies.
Through sensory immersion and deepening awareness, we reconnect with our innate wisdom and our bodies’ intelligence, awakening to the richness of sensation and self-trust. In a supportive and judgment-free space, we move beyond shame and cultural conditioning, reclaiming our wholeness. In doing so, we create a more fulfilling, nourishing, and inspiring intimate life rooted in self-trust, inclusivity, relational presence, and mutual respect.
"When we come back home to ourselves and start to trust and live by our inherent genius, we become the unstoppable force of nature we were born to be.”
— Dr. Saida Desilets
“A wild, robust life awaits—one that honors your wholeness and the vibrant interconnection that has always been your birthright.”
— Barbara Collier
“The retreat with Barbara was life-changing. The skill and professionalism of the team were an inspiration and far exceeded my expectations. I entered with the goal of taking my personal development further and beginning a new path. I left with the clarity I was seeking, a clear plan, renewed enthusiasm, more tools to help me succeed, and precious new friends.”
— Sedona Retreat 2022
“I have attended three in-person programs hosted by this team, and each time, they felt seamless in execution and plentiful in support. They are more than facilitators; they truly understand and embody their offerings.”
— Lisa, Participant
✨ Total Retreat Investment based on remaining lodging selections: $2,995–$4,995 USD (all-inclusive)
Includes 7-night stay at Imiloa Institute, gourmet meals, private round-trip hopper flight from San José, full retreat programming, and post-retreat integration support. Partial scholarship support may be available to eligible applicants.
*The maximum number of participants is 30, but we are planning on hosting approximately 20 to ensure a deeply personal and transformative experience.
We hope to see you in Costa Rica!