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Examine with Love: Shifting Internal Narratives

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375 Panterkill Road PO Box 70 Phoenicia, NY 12464 United States
Date
September 25 - 28, 2025

About this Retreat

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Details of this retreat

We all have those familiar patterns we notice ourselves falling back into, some of which we’d like so badly to shift. Under each of those patterns are beliefs we hold about ourselves, other people, and the world. Our internal beliefs, whether we are aware of them or not, are what guide us in every choice we make and dictate how we interpret our world and the people around us. What do we believe is possible for us? What do we deserve? Our internal narratives also influence how much joy we experience in any given situation and how much we allow ourselves to rest. Do we believe we deserve joy? Do we believe we are only valuable while working?

First, it’s hard to even hear what our underlying beliefs are. Then, what happens when we can articulate a belief and see how it’s affecting our lives but can’t seem to shift it? Perhaps you’ve tried to change but the same behavior patterns keep resurfacing.

In this retreat you will identify one belief – “I don’t deserve the love I want,” “It’s not safe to shine,” “People will hurt me if I get close,” “I don’t belong,” are some examples – and we will gently examine this belief. Where did it come from? How was it formed? What’s it trying to do for you? How does it feel in your body? We will loosen its grip with compassion—not force. You will be guided to notice how the belief lives in your body and later make space for that belief to be adjusted or transformed. You will be supported in creating, or listening for, an alternative form of the belief that allows for liberation, flow and expansion. By the end of the retreat, you’ll have an antidote to the original belief you started with—something emotionally and somatically resonant, uniquely tailored to you. It might be a sentence, a sensation, or an image—something you can reach for when that old belief resurfaces in the future. Finally, we will make room for the body to recalibrate to the new belief.

If this is calling to you, you are welcome to contact Lydia directly with any further questions about the retreat or her work.



Schedule

Thursday, September 25

3 - 6 pm Arrival & Check-in
6 - 7 pm Dinner
7:30 - 9 pm Opening Circle & Yoga Nidra

Friday, September 26

8 - 9 am Breakfast
9:30 am - 12 pm Envisioning Your Dream
12:30 - 1:30 pm Lunch
2 - 5:30 pm Getting to Know Your Belief
6 - 7 pm Dinner
7:30 - 9 pm Yoga Nidra

Saturday, September 27

8 - 9 am Breakfast
9:30 am - 12 pm Developing an Antidote
12:30 - 1:30 pm Lunch
2 - 5:30 pm Recalibration
6 - 7 pm Dinner
7:30 - 9 pm Yoga Nidra

Sunday, September 28

8 - 9 am Breakfast
9 - 10 am Check out of rooms
10 am - 12 pm Closing Circle
12:30 - 1:30 pm Lunch & Departure

*Please note that the schedule is subject to change at any time.

Getting Here

Location icon Menla, 375 Panterkill Road PO Box 70 Phoenicia, NY 12464 United States

Accommodation

Standard Single - Shared Bath

Accommodation
Menla Private Queen Room with Queen Bed and Shared Bathroom Public Phone and Hi-Speed Wifi Internet Access Available This lodging type is not ADA Compliant Private Queen Rooms with Shared Bathroom are Available in Thimpu House, Panther Cottage and Potala House * Please note that rates include meals and accommodations

Standard Double Full - Shared bath (Shared Room)

Accommodation
Deluxe Double Room with Two Full Beds and Shared Bathroom Free Phone and Hi-Speed Wifi Internet Access Available Air Conditioning This lodging type is not ADA Compliant. Please note that due to the stairs we recommend that guests with mobility issues book other accommodations. Deluxe Double Rooms with Shared Bathrooms are Located in Thimphu * Please note rates include meals and accommodations. This booking is for one bed in a double shared room: We May Assign You a Roommate if You Do Not Register with One.

Economy Premium Single - Shared Bath

Accommodation
Standard Premium Single Room with a Queen or Full Bed and Shared Bathroom Up to 10 guests share two large bathrooms. Each bathroom has two shower stalls and two toilets. A phone is not available but high-speed WiFi is available in the room Phone Access Available in Upper Level Of Conference Center. All calls are free of charge This Lodging Type is not ADA Compliant. * Please note rates include meals and accommodations.

Economy Single - Shared Bath

Accommodation
Standard Single Room with a Twin Bed and Shared Bathroom Bathroom is Shared with One to Six Other Guests on Your Floor. A phone is not available but high-speed WiFi is available in the room Phone Access Available in Nearby Conference Center and also Lhasa in Business Center. All calls are free of charge. This Lodging Type is not ADA Compliant. * Please note rates include meals and accommodations.

Economy Triple - Shared Bath (Shared Room)

Accommodation
Standard Triple Room with Three Twin Beds and Shared Bathroom Accommodations Fee Includes All Meals. High speed Wi-Fi is available in the room. Phone Access Available in Nearby Conference Center and also Lhasa in Business Center. All calls are free of charge. This Lodging Type is not ADA Compliant. * Please note that rates include meals and accommodations * Please note: this is an open door policy room, meaning there are no keys to lock the door (we have lockers you can use at Lhasa if needed) * This booking is for one bed in a triple shared room: We May Assign You Roommates if You Do Not Register with others.

Customer Reviews

4.50 out of 5.0 average rating

4.0
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Weekend retreat stay
The property is on a beautiful, peaceful location.
Nature is all around and sometimes a little too close but you are literally surrounded by woods.

The food was really good and I liked the buffet style and fruit basket.

The gift shop although small had a nice selection of items and I purchased a few fun items.

Since the dining area was on the opposite side of the site from the convention center, a lot of students drove back and forth on the property. I chose the walking paths to get around.  


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Lovely
I had a fascinating and enlightening experience during an “Energy squared Reiki,” class at Menlo this past week. The grounds, rooms, facilities amenities and spa at Menla were all beautiful, clean, and peaceful. The food was delicious and nourishing. I can say only good things about both Menla and the program I attended, and would wholeheartedly recommend both.

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