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Held & Whole: A Restorative ADHD Retreat

4.502 reviews
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375 Panterkill Road PO Box 70 Phoenicia, NY 12464 United States
Date
October 10 - 12, 2025

About this Retreat

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Details of this retreat

For those navigating life with ADHD, this thoughtfully designed weekend offers nourishment for your nervous system, body, and brain. Together, we’ll explore practical, mindfulness-based tools to strengthen emotional regulation, deepen self-awareness, and foster authenticity—all anchored by accessible approaches for cultivating kindness, compassion, patience, and joy.

This retreat will focus on ADHD-friendly ways to begin contemplative practices, or deepen your existing one, with an emphasis on how mindfulness-based supports enhance all aspects of ADHD care. It is a unique opportunity to blend evidence-based interventions with practices that invite more ease and ok-ness into daily life. Through contemplative tools rooted in nature’s elements, we’ll return to our deeper purpose and shared values, amidst the expansive beauty of the Catskills in autumn.

Sessions will offer simple, actionable techniques that validate and address the significant challenges of managing emotional intensity for those living with ADHD. The emphasis throughout will be a balanced mix of science-based education, therapeutic goals centered on self-regulation, and restorative time outdoors.

This is a rare opportunity to return home grounded in both a compassionate and realistic view of living with ADHD. You will walk away with a set of practical resources ready and available to you, and everyone you live with or serve as a care provider or teacher, for everyday use.

Immerse yourself in a space for quiet exploration, intentionality, and rejuvenation.

Open more fully through the lens of loving-kindness
Generate compassion for ourselves and one another
Engage with joy, especially during stressful times
Cultivate equanimity and emotional balance in daily life

Whether you're seeking clarity, restoration, or understanding, this gathering invites you to slow down, be present, listen deeply, and reconnect with your natural capacity for intention and insight.

Whether you're seeking clarity, restoration, or understanding, this gathering invites you to slow down, be present, listen deeply, and reconnect with your natural capacity for intention and insight.

Join us—any adult living with ADHD, parents, teachers, providers, and partners—all are welcome. Space is limited, so we encourage you to reserve your spot now.



Schedule

Friday October 10th

3 - 3:45 pm Arrival and Check-in
4 - 5:30 pm Welcome Program
6 - 7 pm Dinner
7:30 - 9 pm Evening Practice and Talk including Outdoor Fire

Saturday October 11th

7 - 8 am Early Morning Practice
8 - 9 am Breakfast
9:30 am -12 pm Morning Program with Outdoor Time
12:30 - 1:30 pm Lunch
1:30 - 3 pm Afternoon Program - Part One
3:00 - 4:30 pm Self-paced Outdoor Time
4:30 - 6:00 pm Afternoon Program - Part Two
6 - 7 pm Dinner
7:30 - 9 pm Evening Program

Sunday October 12th

7 - 8 am Early Morning Program
8 - 9 am Breakfast
9:30 - 10 am Room Check Out
10 am - 12 pm Closing Program with Outdoor Time
12:30 - 1:30 pm Lunch & Departure

Getting Here

Location icon Menla, 375 Panterkill Road PO Box 70 Phoenicia, NY 12464 United States

Accommodation

Standard Single - Shared Bath

Accommodation
Menla Private Queen Room with Queen Bed and Shared Bathroom Public Phone and Hi-Speed Wifi Internet Access Available This lodging type is not ADA Compliant Private Queen Rooms with Shared Bathroom are Available in Thimpu House, Panther Cottage and Potala House * Please note that rates include meals and accommodations

Standard Double Full - Shared bath (Shared Room)

Accommodation
Deluxe Double Room with Two Full Beds and Shared Bathroom Free Phone and Hi-Speed Wifi Internet Access Available Air Conditioning This lodging type is not ADA Compliant. Please note that due to the stairs we recommend that guests with mobility issues book other accommodations. Deluxe Double Rooms with Shared Bathrooms are Located in Thimphu * Please note rates include meals and accommodations. This booking is for one bed in a double shared room: We May Assign You a Roommate if You Do Not Register with One.

Standard Double Twin - Shared bath (Shared Room)

Accommodation
Deluxe Double Room with Two Twin Beds and Shared Bathroom Free Phone and Hi-Speed Wifi Internet Access Available Air Conditioning This lodging type is not ADA Compliant. Please note that due to the stairs we recommend that guests with mobility issues book other accommodations. Deluxe Double Rooms with Shared Bathrooms are Located in Thimphu * Please note rates include meals and accommodations. This booking is for one bed in a double shared room: We May Assign You a Roommate if You Do Not Register with One.

Economy Premium Single - Shared Bath

Accommodation
Standard Premium Single Room with a Queen or Full Bed and Shared Bathroom Up to 10 guests share two large bathrooms. Each bathroom has two shower stalls and two toilets. A phone is not available but high-speed WiFi is available in the room Phone Access Available in Upper Level Of Conference Center. All calls are free of charge This Lodging Type is not ADA Compliant. * Please note rates include meals and accommodations.

Customer Reviews

4.50 out of 5.0 average rating

4.0
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Weekend retreat stay
The property is on a beautiful, peaceful location.
Nature is all around and sometimes a little too close but you are literally surrounded by woods.

The food was really good and I liked the buffet style and fruit basket.

The gift shop although small had a nice selection of items and I purchased a few fun items.

Since the dining area was on the opposite side of the site from the convention center, a lot of students drove back and forth on the property. I chose the walking paths to get around.  


5.0
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Lovely
I had a fascinating and enlightening experience during an “Energy squared Reiki,” class at Menlo this past week. The grounds, rooms, facilities amenities and spa at Menla were all beautiful, clean, and peaceful. The food was delicious and nourishing. I can say only good things about both Menla and the program I attended, and would wholeheartedly recommend both.

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